What would you say to your deaf children if they will cry why you wasted the early years that offer the best benefit of CI?
Fuzzy
I am gonna type this all in caps just to prove a point here about Standard English Grammar.
WHAT WOULD YOU SAY TO YOUR DEAF CHILDREN IF THEY COME CRYING TO YOU, ASKING WHY YOU WASTED THEIR EARLY YEARS? AS IT IS WELL KNOWN THAT THE BEST BENEFIT A CI OFFERS IS DURING THEIR EARLY YEARS?
I think we could do a little less with worrying about how a person types or reads and worry about how we are passing our messages along.
The only thing we are here for is to learn from and support others that come here. I do not believe that a new parent that is panicked and seeking answers is going to care how well we write. All that parent is going to care about is getting the messages and getting calmed down and feeling better.
Fuzzy, I am not trying to be a *grammar cop*, I just wanted to point out that even YOU do not write perfect standard english. If I wanted to I could spend all my time in AD pointing out and rewriting thousands of posts *including some of my own* just to do what? Try to act superiour?
When I come to this board, I dont care how someone else writes. And I certainly dont care if there are a few spelling and or grammar errors in my posts. If I was writing a novel for professional gain then yes I would care. But this is not a professional writers board and never will be.
Even those of us with PHD's and Masters Degrees still make little errrors in our writings.
My suggestion is to lay off and leave it alone. You obviously can read our posts, so what more do you need?
And Fuzzy, its not that we don't understand what your writing it is how you are writing it.
If I said Cheri, youi need to clean up your grammar, I can't understand you.
Or if I said, Cheri can you please clarify what you are meaning here?
Which one sounds more like the insult?
Same thing, if I had a skinny friend who wanted to borrow my clothes and I said to them
My clothes would fall off your skinny ass, so therefore you cant borrow them because you might lose them.
Or if I said, why don't we go shopping for something for you to wear?
Which one sounds more like the insult?
Get the drift here?