Death of a friend.

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I and Abel went to poker tonight and there were talk about someone having died. ASL is NOT my forte, so I had trouble understanding our other friends. I had to ask 2 different people for clarification. Apparently our friend Cheryl Mohlenhoff went in for her knee surgery, and they gave her one dose of anesthesia to put her under. She didn't fall asleep, so they gave her 3 more doses. It caused so much damage to her heart that I guess she went into cardiac arrest but she was revived and she was in the hospital for 2 weeks. She came home Wednesday night and I spoke to her on AIM that night...she tried to explain to me what happened, but I could not understand her very much since English wasn't her forte. All I got was that she had a heart problem during surgery, and "pn"....her word...she was trying to tell me that she got pneumonia too...I didn't know what "pn" meant until today when someone else clarified it for me. Anyway, we got to the bar and the other deafies were talking about Cheryl, they were talking about she's dead....I couldn't understand what they were saying, and finally I couldn't stand it anymore and asked someone to straight up clarify for me. Apparently on Thursday or Friday night, she began having trouble breathing, and was rushed to the ER...they worked on her...managed to kind of revive her like 3 or 4 times but she got completely brain damaged and went into a coma. She is now brain dead, and the hospital is waiting on her family to come down here and sign all the paperwork and take her off of life support tonight.

We are waiting to find out about the funeral arrangements. Depending on when the funeral is and if its before my surgery date or if its long enough after surgery day, we will go to the funeral...I do not know if I can handle going to the funeral. I have not gone to a funeral since my mother died...so it is going to be very uncomfortable.

Rest in Peace, Cheryl.
 
Awww I am sorry! It is so sad to see someone had to go at young age. Isn't she young? TOO sad! :(

I hope you able to get CI soon! I know how much you really wanted it! I do too!

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LakeTahoe said:
Awww I am sorry! It is so sad to see someone had to go at young age. Isn't she young? TOO sad! :(

I hope you able to get CI soon! I know how much you really wanted it! I do too!

:hug:
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She was only 40, I think.

Yes, I am still going for my CI surgery on Wednesday. I know I am so going to be all over my surgeon's ass about this....I am gonna tell him to be so fucking careful not to fucking overdose...I'm more nervous because of this! But I am not going to let this stop what I want to do, and besides, I want to get this over with so I won't be so nervous about it for long.

Thanks, though.
 
I totally understand that! I had IV and dr put sleepy medication that knocked me out...so maybe you might want try that? :dunno:

So good luck! I am sure your darling bf can keep us update?

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SO keep us updated.
LuciaDisturbed said:
She was only 40, I think.

Yes, I am still going for my CI surgery on Wednesday. I know I am so going to be all over my surgeon's ass about this....I am gonna tell him to be so fucking careful not to fucking overdose...I'm more nervous because of this! But I am not going to let this stop what I want to do, and besides, I want to get this over with so I won't be so nervous about it for long.

Thanks, though.
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My prayers are with her family and my prayers also are with you too. :angel:
 
Thanks, everybody.

I will have either Abel or SpiceHD keep y'all updated after my surgery if I am unable to keep y'all updated.
 
No Cheryl is only 39 years old. She is my ASD alumni as she graduated from ASD in 1984. I got the news today, too. I am sad to hear about that too. The family is in my thoughts. :(

The message I received in the email today.

Cheryl Molheff who passed away this mrng. She graduated at Asd in 1984. She was 39 yrs old. She died of bone disease, heart problem and everything n she had injection for pain but she does not feel pain. took it for 4 time and ended up in coma for two days. she's overdosed with medicine or allergy reaction. and cheryl's daughter said that she supposed to have knee surgery she supposed to go sleep when the injection....it did not effect her four times then all the suddently her heart stopped..then dr saved her ....she woke up next day then she had to see her grandkid n went home..then late evening that when her health striked thats all i know that my friend from Ark told me .. I cant believe she passed away and cant be....but I alway miss her and wont forget about her...


Rest in peace, Cheri. You will be missed! :(
 
Ohhh...thanks...now I understand more of what happened...wow. Someone said she was 40 so that's what I thought...thanks for the correction. :(

SmileyGin, are you going to the funeral? I might, depending on when it is.

SmileyGin said:
No Cheryl is only 39 years old. She is my ASD alumni as she graduated from ASD in 1984. I got the news today, too. I am sad to hear about that too. The family is in my thoughts. :(

The message I received in the email today.

Cheryl Molheff who passed away this mrng. She graduated at Asd in 1984. She was 39 yrs old. She died of bone disease, heart problem and everything n she had injection for pain but she does not feel pain. took it for 4 time and ended up in coma for two days. she's overdosed with medicine or allergy reaction. and cheryl's daughter said that she supposed to have knee surgery she supposed to go sleep when the injection....it did not effect her four times then all the suddently her heart stopped..then dr saved her ....she woke up next day then she had to see her grandkid n went home..then late evening that when her health striked thats all i know that my friend from Ark told me .. I cant believe she passed away and cant be....but I alway miss her and wont forget about her...


Rest in peace, Cheri. You will be missed! :(
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LuciaDisturbed said:
Ohhh...thanks...now I understand more of what happened...wow. Someone said she was 40 so that's what I thought...thanks for the correction. :(

SmileyGin, are you going to the funeral? I might, depending on when it is.
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You are welcome :(

I might and if you want to know I will be glad to find out for you and let you know.
 
SmileyGin said:
You are welcome :(

I might and if you want to know I will be glad to find out for you and let you know.
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Oh, please do let us know...Abel and I are planning to go to funeral if it is before my surgery date or if it is few days after surgery, depends on if I feel well to go...I will TRY to go if it's after surgery date...PM me as soon as you find out...Thanks!
 
LuciaDisturbed said:
Oh, please do let us know...Abel and I are planning to go to funeral if it is before my surgery date or if it is few days after surgery, depends on if I feel well to go...I will TRY to go if it's after surgery date...PM me as soon as you find out...Thanks!
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I will be glad to let you know via PM when the funeral is. HOpefully will find out tomorrow as I do have plans too this week! :(
 
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