Funny how people like to psychoanalyze those who don't know better themselves on trying to figure out a person's life. I don't do that to people in here but it's ok for you to do that? Interesting.
I'm not sure what you meant by "old" issues from my time at Gallaudet. I don't have "old" issues. My views have been the consistent during and after Gallaudet. Met a lot of great people there. Met my future deaf wife there. Met a lot friends there just as I have done the same thing at Univ. of Idaho during my graduate days and afterwards. I wouldn't change a thing in what I do and have done. My wife uses pure ASL and switches over to PSE/SE and have taught ASL classses, too! I use SE/PSE. But she talk and listen,too. I have always preferred to talk and listen. But while I'm with my deaf/hh friends, I sign. What else? And yet you never met me! You do this armchair analysis. My advice? Don't do that. Makes you look a bigger fool thinking you know the bigger picture. No wonder how people depend so much on words written here and elsewhere to think they have a complete picture. Reserve that judgement until you actually meet people offline. I remind myself that everyday that people on the internet are certainly different when you get to meet them in person. And I try not to take people responses here personally, including yours, because you do not know what you are saying but are simply grasping at air.
As for "rejection issues," how is that so? I have Deaf, deaf, hh, and hearing friends ranging from those who sign in SEE, ASL, SE and those who prefer to speak and listen to my hearing friends. Many from Gallaudet and outside. My friends know who I am and accept me rather because they know me and know who I am. Those who have met me ended being suprised because they had a long held misconception about me. Please take a clue here. That has been a common refrain from some Deaf people who are unable to agree to disagree with my opinions but must go the route of "rejection issues" shows desperation or misunderstanding.
As for "Deafhood," I have my opinions. I explained my reasons. Please don't use the armchair psychoanalysis approach as an alternative excuse to avoid saying "agree to disagree." Otherwise, it'd simply be wimping out.
No offense.