Mainstream schools which properly welcome deaf children and "get it" can be good for many. However, this is a minority of mainstream schools. I was a primary teacher and classroom assistant and I've sat in those staff rooms. The schools and the authorities will make the right noises, but in practice they are all moaning that these kids should be in special schools. They complain about wearing a radio aid transmitter, refuse to even shut the classroom door for basic acoustics, won't turn on the Soundfield, constantly ask "can you manage just this once without your ____" (insert type of technology), they get on about what level of hearing the kids have "oh she can hear me when she really wants to" - are you an audiologist?! No! Technology breaks down in the deaf school or deaf unit the kids take their radio aid down to the audiology office to get it changed for another one. If the Soundfield breaks down then all the kids get up and move to a classroom with a working system and theirs gets fixed. Not months later, not weeks later, that day.
In the deaf school the kids get audiology visits on site so they don't miss lessons all the time for earmould updates and hearing aid programming. Their speech therapy (if desired) is integrated into the educational program, not something they are taken out of their other lessons to go and get.
Things I have heard working in the mainstream:
- These kids should be in special schools (practically daily!)
- Every kid has some diagnosis or other these days
- He just needs a good kick up the backside, he's just slow
- Parents will make any excuse for their kid being slow
- I can't be expected to deal with this, I am not trained
- I'm not taking off my necklace so I can wear his stupid transmitter thing
- I don't see why I should have anything to do with batteries and stuff
- I can't be responsible for checking if he has his hearing aids on or not
- I have to yell at him all day cos he's so slow
- I don't like having an assistant in my classroom all day
- It drives me mad having someone waving their arms about all day long (interpreter)
- If you can't hear properly then you shouldn't be allowed to teach (about me)
- He's so antisocial (about a deaf kid who doesn't have English or an interpreter at break times!)
- They should all be made to talk and lipread, it's better for them than signing because it's normal.
- He should be held back a year until he can learn to speak
- Supply teachers (substitutes) shouldn't be expected to wear the radio aid transmitter (!!!)
- She just doesn't listen
- I have to tell her everything twenty times over (said with exasperation)
I don't have much experience of deaf/Deaf ed from this side of the fence, I was in a HI unit at school for a while because my teachers moaned and groaned about my radio aid. I am not so sure about one of the deaf schools that is aural/oral and discourages BSL even between children in social periods, it's all oral/aural education, so even within deaf ed there is a lot of difference, but there is massive variability in quality of mainstream placement, and I don't want my daughter going mainstream if she has to go to our local school. I'd mainstream her elsewhere, but if we don't get in to the other mainstream school we will apply for a hearing, speech and language placement for her.
Oh, and they will not tell us which schools already have good technology or other deaf pupils because they have an obligation under the DDA to adjust the local school for her. So they pretend they are going to do this. I know kids still waiting 3 years later for the promised ramp, wheelchair lift and disabled toilet that was going to be in place in time for them to start school, and I never got any adjustments done when I was a member of staff either, despite promises. I have only 3 months to request any installations like Soundfield, there's not a chance they will actually do it, they will just promise.