hello hello hello all!
Mimsy has asked me to speak to ya'all on her behalf because she's completely overwhelmed about this whole thing. As you all already know - she needs Luca (her dog) with her as a coping mechanism for her anxiety disorder and also she was traveling in Italy. and she's currently in school now which is almost over. So this is all too overwhelming and exhausting for her now. She's taking a short time-out to get into zen mode.
There's a possibility that she may not go to Cornell but I'm encouraging her to just hold onto it and think about it again after situation is all calm and quiet. So for now - let us all give her some space and time and she'll be back to let us know what's up.
Good luck Mimsy! Whatever you decide, we've got your back!
Yes, I understand this life transition can be very stressful.
Please encourage her that apparently Cornell has faith in her abilities, so that's a good thing.
Also, in having dealt with colleges for myself and other family members, and professionally, I can attest to the fact that often getting started in college is the most stressful part of that journey. After the first week, it's like a huge sigh of relief. If she can make it thru the administrative process, getting settled into a place to stay, and the first week of classes, she will find that things get a lot more manageable. The worst parts, beginnings and finals, are all temporary situations.
Starting a new phase of life is always a challenge. When I was in boot camp, I cried myself to sleep almost every night. I thought, oh, no, my next four years will be like this! However, they weren't. After boot camp, I was still a junior person but I was considered a shipmate with equal standing. There were some bumps in the road but for the most part, nothing at all like boot camp again.
If Cornell's DVM program offers senior students as mentors (buddies), I hope that she can take advantage of that. People who have prior experience can be great resources and support.
Of course, there are many sympathetic hearts here at AD, too.
For Mimsy