I've had my share of noisy neighbors while living in apartments in the past. So I always rented out the upper floor, or found an apartment where no one lived above or beneath you....
Some people just walk "heavily" like a "bam, bam", and I would always take a broom handle and pound on the ceiling whenever it really irritated me. Even kids running back and forth in the apartment....I made a rule a long time ago..."no running/horseplay" in the house...get outside....Then again, some people are just down-right inconsiderate! And their parents or even themselves didn't give a damn.
We deafies have to deal with the vibrations. Those that can hear the "noise", especially the LOUD music, get the worst of it....
TWA is right in most aspects. Being "polite" and informing the neighbor that the "noise" really bothers you, and if they could tone it down?.......Some complexes have a rule....and ask the tenant if they are having a "party", to inform their neighbors, even the office/leasing manager....and to keep the noise at a minimum, especially the loud music, and the party to extend no longer than 11pm-12AM...And some complexes have clubhouses for this also.
After 2 complaints to the offending neighbor, with no results, then I would inform the office/leasing manager. ....But a word of caution....some neighbors, when receiving a letter of complaint for noise violations/loud parties, and they know or "assume" you were the complaint...your car tires might be "popped"...(it happened to me)...when I complained about a puppy that was tied to a tree outside all day while the man worked, without water or food, and dog poo-poo all over the yard!...He popped my tire! I couldn't prove it, tho.'