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Everyone's parents are different when it comes to bi/homosexuality; some come around, some don't, some can deal with it only when it's never actually talked about. About the only thing that will tell is time. if your mom came from a really strict religious or traditional background, be patient with her. You said she makes jokes - joking is often a way of trying to deal with or deflect discomfort. I hope it all turns out all right for you.
 
AliciaM said:
So it's official..my friend and I grace got into a fight over us ..and my bf and i were going thrua thing so i broke up with him today and am now happily going out with my now gf grace..just haven't told my mom
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hehehe this thread is kinda funny a year later...granted it's been a fantastic year for us.

Happy Anniversary baby! I love you so much!
 
:aw: to both of ya.

AliciaM - looking at your old post... have you told your mom yet?
 
thanks

and no ..everyone thinks she knows but sometimes she'll be nice about grace and sometimes shes a plain bitch and threatens me...and I'm at a point where I just may move out but dunno if I can afford it
 
AliciaM said:
thanks

and no ..everyone thinks she knows but sometimes she'll be nice about grace and sometimes shes a plain bitch and threatens me...and I'm at a point where I just may move out but dunno if I can afford it
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ah... oh well - you've got us :grouphug:
 
We did tell her mom last year but that really didn't go well. We're hoping that she's coming to terms with our relationship and adjusting on her own. And yeah, her mom lately has been nice to me and we've all done some hanging out together.
 
Tousi said:
So how much a month are you gonna chip in, Jiro? :lol:
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well I have spent the majority of my days living in a paradise for the racketeer. have patience until my finances are settled.
 
DJGrace said:
We did tell her mom last year but that really didn't go well. We're hoping that she's coming to terms with our relationship and adjusting on her own. And yeah, her mom lately has been nice to me and we've all done some hanging out together.
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ah that's wonderful :thumb:
 
I have friends that have gone through very similar situations and I even have an aunt who disowned me. In my friends situation she was fortunate enough to mine away for college and take up her own mantle there. In my situation my aunt thought that my ex had sabotaged me and turned me gay. Lol as if. Anyways, I feel that if your mom and yours relationship is close enough, she'll come around and learn to accept it or at least grin and bear it...have you mentioned that her jokes offend you? What if you poked fun at her lifestyle? How would she feel? Different perspectives sometimes help. Show her the situation from another angle...

Thanks for reading,

iacobus
 
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