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I think you're a fraud. I don't even think you're deaf.
Promoting JTC and wishing to have a deaf child....
Another scammer, heh?
I think you're a fraud. I don't even think you're deaf.
Promoting JTC and wishing to have a deaf child....
not misleading - we're discretely accusing people of audism.
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If you feel that way....
That's quite a definition of hearing that you've made up there. Hearing is the perception of sound stimuli. Look it up. Yes, my daughter immediately responded to sounds in her environment, and could discriminate between tones and hand claps, and even find them from a completely different part of the house. She was able to hear from day 1. Within a few weeks she was able to distinguish the difference between the dogs panting softly below her bedroom window and a cat meowing in the same place without seeing either of them. CIs work and they work well, and the risks associated with them are negligible.
Then what would you call it, if not "hearing"?
Then what is wrong with a hearing aid? Hearing aid has zip problems associated with CI.
Parents that decide to opt for CI do NOT do this because the think they understand deafness or Deafness, they do it because they understand hearing.If they truly really do not understand deafness, then they have no place acting like they are experts in deafness. I am sick of it. Either be honest or stop playing these stupid games like the few posts above me.
Granted, I know a lot of people dont like Jillio and yes, I get tired of the fighting as well. Yes, Jillio should cease sometimes but others who complain about her should do the same too. You cant complain and yet do the same crap yourselves.
Adding my 3 cents to make it a nickel..She has worked with many CI users who have shared their experiences with her as adults so she is not as clueless as some have claimed.
I agree... It's the deaf children that can hear with CI she doesn't understand. She meets many, many people that do not like CI. Some had bad experiences, for some it didn't work, some don't like it because they misunderstand how it works and some don't like it because they are supposed not to like it...
I dont know if you are a parent or not....parents tend to be biased. I know I am when it comes to my children so it is most likely we are getting subjective opinions rather than objective opinions from them. You might be right... Then again, these parents share their experiences of their lives with children with CI, just like you are sharing experiences of a life without CI... Neither of us is an expert in any of the two sides.
My mom truly believed that I functioned well as a hearing person because I "survived" by being mainstreamed orally with almost no support. Doesnt mean that I am a hearing person.
Treating someone that cannot hear as a hearing person is terrible... Treating someone that that can hear (with/without CI) is perfectly natural.. Isn't it all about acknowledging the abilities of the other party?
Just my two cents.
there are not many hearing parent with no experience with cochlear implants around on this message board...I've been hanging around and reading for awhile. It seems that most cochlear implant threads devolve into one hearing parent with no experience with cochlear implants arguing about the benefit children get from their devices with parents who actually do have every day, real life experience with cochlear implants.
Just my opinion though.
Are you deliberately misreading...Death is negligible???? Sorry, death is a HUGE thing to me.
Do you really not understand the difference between a HA and a CI..?Then what is wrong with a hearing aid? Hearing aid has zip problems associated with CI.
there are not many hearing parent with no experience with cochlear implants around on this message board...
Most of the arguments are between deaf parents with no experience with cochlear implants and hearing parents with experience with children with cochlear implants.
What I appreciate is that the are passionate that they don't want to see the same thing happen to our children as happened to themselves.
The only thing is.... The starting point of our children is totally different from theirs..
Do you really not understand the difference between a HA and a CI..?
When you are HoH a hearing aid will help you to hear. If your hearing loss is getting worse, you will need stronger HAs to hear... At some point, HAs will not be able to give you the ability to hear.
THEN there are different options...
- You can continue to go through life without hearing.
- You can investigate in getting a CI in order to start to hear again.
Yes, of course a hearing aid would be a better choice -- if there were a choice possible. But there isn't, they aren't interchangeable: a person eligible for a CI isn't able to benefit from a hearing aid.
However the end point is usually the journey that parallels these who disliked their experiences.there are not many hearing parent with no experience with cochlear implants around on this message board...
Most of the arguments are between deaf parents with no experience with cochlear implants and hearing parents with experience with children with cochlear implants.
What I appreciate is that the are passionate that they don't want to see the same thing happen to our children as happened to themselves.
The only thing is.... The starting point of our children is totally different from theirs..
How do you determine a 1-2 year old to be unable to benefit from a hearing aid?
Don't troll -- we've had endless threads on just that subject alone.
I am not. Just asking that question. It's valid, and you know it.
It's very valid. But it's been answered many times and you don't like the answers. Why don't you go back to one of the many threads in which the answer you didn't like was given? That way you don't have to waste time and space having the same conversation.