Who said CI is bad, bad, bad?
You are incorrect. I go by what I feel. Empathy for those that are constantly told they are "less than" simply because they do not see a CI as necessary to improve their lives.
If it was the right decision for you, then that's great. As for every child....can't agree. I chose not to have my son implanted, and as an adult, he sees no need for it, either. He is a graduate student at a well known hearing college, and is perfectly productive and happy. In fact, I know plenty of hearing folks that aren't as productive and happy as he is stone cold deaf.
I checked out all options. I decided to take the one that left my son medically unaltered. The risk and the pain was not worth it, when everything I investigated indicated to me that he did not have to have hearing in order to be a whole person. And, for what is to be 25 years next month, he agrees with me.