Can't Believe What I Witnessed!

That's okay DD7.......
 
im still waiting on my tickets to the rematch! any word when its gonna be yet?:laugh2:
 
Bebonang said:
That is sad with your mother and siblings for ignoring you as part of the family. It is like a Cinderella story.

Exactly. That's how I feel for years. I do love them very much, but I don't want to be around them. I prefer to be around my own children.

That take the cake if family members don't love each other. It is hard to try to amend that you will have to have peace and forgiven your family members for what they do.

I already forgave them. I sent a large vase with flowers in it to my mother to show my love for her. She cried when she recieved it through Florist Store. She never approached herself to say that she forgave me for her wrongful doin'. Oh, well....

In the past when I was a teenager, I used to argued and get mad at my sister (seven years younger than me) and my mom too. There was no fighting, just words thrown each other about what we think of them. But I made peace with my mom and my sister years later. Now my mom is gone. All I have left is my sister and my half brother living (we have family like my nieces and nephews including my son and his family). So I had to make peace with them. I think family quarrel is probably the normal, but I feel there is something wrong with us not getting along well and not get into terrible fight like S.O.B. mentioned. I think it is the reason why we have family social workers or family counselors to help us deal with our differences and try to make peace among us. Having a family is not easy and it takes work to make everyone getting attention and love in the family. That is my two cents. PEACE. :cool2:
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Yea, I know how that feels. I even sent an invitation to my young sister ( I am 2 years older than her ) to add her to my contact list at MySpace. She added me. She did talked to me while addin' each other's names, but after that she stopped talkin' to me. :-\
I noticed that she don't post much to her oldest daughter's MySpace, comparin' to mine. My children posted many times to MySpace. My children and I chat alot, especially through MySpace private messages. :giggle: I know I have to be very careful what I say to my children on their front webpage, because I always knew that my sister will read and start gossipin' about it in the family. But, I uploaded several pictures of Alaska, Florida and Sanibel Island to show that I really enjoyed my life very much without gettin' involved with them to start problems. It's not worth it.
I prefer to have a good time and be happy what I love most! The next thing my fiance and I will go to Jamaica in May -- I will upload some pictures of Jamaica in MySpace, too when we get back. That shows how much peace I want. Pictures will show my happiness. :)
 
I agree and I understand you very well. This is good that you did try your best to give them peace even though you already send your mother a vase of flowers. Keeping your family in touch with MySpace messages and photo albums of where you have lived before and now you are living in Florida will make it worthwhile and to let them know that you and your own family are not abandon. I hope you have a good trip to the Jamaica and planning on sending the pictures to show your happinss. :thumb:
 
My former boyfriend told me that he remember vividly that his mother was holding him when she got into a fight with her sister. When I translated his story for his mother (she knows only limited homemade signs), she was so shocked that he remembered. He must be a toddler or abit younger back then.
 
Hear Again said:
I've heard one too many arguments between my mother and a sister of mine while they screamed at each other at the top of their lungs. Thank goodness I was able to turn my hearing aids off. :giggle:
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And maybe it is a good thing that you can't see them arguing. :)
 
I had 20$ on your mom for a 3rd round KO but sounds like it went the distance and I'm shit out of luck :mad:
 
S.O.B. said:
Have you ever seen your mom and her sister fighting, eventually wrestling it out on the floor? :shock:
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No, I never see my mom fought with anyone.


Few times, I saw crime sence.

About 12 years ago, I was on way to work. I glimpsed two weird cops slow walked. Oh I see, the cop's gun point at bad guy. The bad guy's gun in the mouth or under neck (during talk). Then, bad guy pulled guy out from the car. He got hostage. Only 20 feet away where I stand from bad guy. Felt not comfortable this sence. I walked to car's small parking lot. I stood behind brick wall and watch them. Few minutes later, many about 30-40 cops arrived. The put road block. Bad guy's gun point at hostage's head during he talked then gun in the mouth then gun on hostage's talk. Same repeat.... About 20 minutes later, cop shot bad guy's leg then grab him to throw into Police's van.

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About 15 years ago, I can't believe.... at my workplace, I was ready go to Deli store for snack before they closed at 7pm. Same time, secret service enter our front door. 3 minutes later, I came back to work. Whoaaa, guy's gun pointed at 3 guys use color copy machine at our company. They arrested 3 guys who made copy fake bonds, checks, etc.

Secret service question me why I left from this building. My co-worker told secret service that I am deaf and worker for our company. Secret service told me sorry that they made me scare. I said, No scare at all. They still kept question why I left from building, how often saw 3 guys, did I saw SS's gun, blah, blah, etc. No pleasure with his question.

Other day, I noticed same secret service guy around at near our building. Sometime, the secret service guy drove ugly car (Ford Pinto & Ford Escort).
 
I never seen anyone fighting but if u wanted see fighting then u always can see it on jerry springer :thumb: anyways... I think fighting isn't good way probably solving is good way to solve but if have problems probably wud ingore each other.. and come back and solve it later on or just bury it under rug.. :roll:
 
I saw my six sisters fought over taking clothes without permissions, taking spots on sofa or dining chairs, books, shows on TV and a few others at home while living with them, and they sure drove my mom nuts. Bless her soul!

Six sisters?! :shock:
 
I saw my mom Fight twice.

First one was with her sister. Can not remember nor dare to ask mom what it was over.

Second time. I was 11 years old. I beated up this boy that was picking on me. His mom came to the door to "discuss" with my mom.

My Mom asked her to leave. The mother of the son, Spitted in my mom's face while she was trying to close the door.

Man oh man!!!

I was like :shock:

They was rolling and fists were flying!! My Mom ended up getting the best of her.

Never had that boy pick on me again! :giggle:
 
Babyblue said:
I saw my mom Fight twice.

First one was with her sister. Can not remember nor dare to ask mom what it was over.

Second time. I was 11 years old. I beated up this boy that was picking on me. His mom came to the door to "discuss" with my mom.

My Mom asked her to leave. The mother of the son, Spitted in my mom's face while she was trying to close the door.

Man oh man!!!

I was like :shock:

They was rolling and fists were flying!! My Mom ended up getting the best of her.

Never had that boy pick on me again! :giggle:
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Whoa! :eek3: :laugh2:
 
They was rolling and fists were flying!! My Mom ended up getting the best of her.

Never had that boy pick on me again! :giggle:[/QUOTE]

Wow, that is soooo much cooler than "my dad can whup your dad"!!
 
S.O.B. said:
Have you ever seen your mom and her sister fighting, eventually wrestling it out on the floor? :shock:
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Lol So your mother and her sister wrestled it out on the floor? :lol:

I don't recalling seeing any of my family members had fought, only arguing back and forth at each others, but nothing serious. ;)
 
Cheri said:
Lol So your mother and her sister wrestled it out on the floor? :lol:

I don't recalling seeing any of my family members had fought, only arguing back and forth at each others, but nothing serious. ;)
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My mom is one tuff cookie! Exercises often, I wresttled with her more as a kid than I did with my dad! LOL All in all, my mom emerged with scratches, my aunt a fractured nose and some torn hair. Fighting is becoming commonplace! LOL
 
S.O.B. said:
My mom is one tuff cookie! Exercises often, I wresttled with her more as a kid than I did with my dad! LOL All in all, my mom emerged with scratches, my aunt a fractured nose and some torn hair. Fighting is becoming commonplace! LOL
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And this is the same family that was shocked about the dance the three year old learned from you and your sister?

Multi faceted!:lol:
 
Never seen any of my siblings get into a physical fight with either of my parents. Violence isnt a big part of my family, thank god!
 
Bottesini said:
And this is the same family that was shocked about the dance the three year old learned from you and your sister?

Multi faceted!:lol:
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No, they are friends close our family (part of the same military unit in the past), the kid belongs to a woman of the deceased. The wrestling match was between my mother and aunt. I did not misrepresent the two posts, read them again. LOL (Damn, imagine a riot over that kid's performance)
 
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