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I don't think the type of drink determines whether or not a person becomes an alcoholic. Quantity of alcohol, frequency of drinking, attitude about alcohol, and reason for drinking are more important.
My father was an alcoholic. He preferred mixed drinks or champagne. He didn't like wine or beer. But alcohol destroyed his personal life, and eventually destroyed his liver and killed him.
But you can't always recognize an alcoholic on the outside. My dad held very important technical jobs in industry and government, he never missed a day's work, and I never saw him "drunk".
If someone needs to defend their drinking, or their family and friends suggest that someone has a drinking problem, then there probably is a problem.
*noddin'* Is it easy to attend AA when somethin' hit a person so hard ( wake-up call ) ?