coolgirlspyer90
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Is there a Director of the band? Is he/she aware that you are frustrated with the tech?
Something we've been saying a lot at work lately when someone is frustrating us with their (poor) communication is, "Help me help you." That is, give me the information I need so that I can give you what you want.
That was a good suggestion for the tech to show you how to strike with the mallets. Are there other things that if the tech showed you, you could reproduce to his satisfaction (like height from which to strike for this part, then from here for that one, etc)?
My guess is that the tech doesn't have the language to explain, nor the education/experience to teach. So maybe if there is a director, the three of you could have a conversation about what feedback you need from the tech to succeed.
Of course, this requires you to make extra effort. But, as the tech doesn't seem to be making any, to resolve it will probably mean it's up to you.
I hope this makes some sense.
(It makes me think of if I tried to teach someone to ride a horse. I am not a natural teacher. I am a fairly natural rider; I know what to do instinctively. I can do something, but I can't necessarily explain to someone else what it is that I do so that they can then do it. This is one of the reasons I don't teach riding; I would frustrate myself as much as many students.
My riding instructor is a great teacher; she can explain something seventy million different ways, breaking down each part of what you need to do. But, in addition to a lot of riding experience, she has a Masters in Education & knows *how* to teach and is also gifted at it.)
Part of the reason of what makes me really frustrated with the communication with him is that he had me for 4 years in the Centerville Band program as a mallet player. I played the vibraphone my first season as a freshman then my last 7 seasons with the Centerville Jazz band and Centerville 'World' Drumline I was on the marimba for 3 1/2 years. And during those 4 years he would've made the effort to learn LITTLE sign for me to be able to understand him. I'm not asking for much, just the ABCs to get him started and i would be happy with that, nothing big like signing the word elephant or signing "i went to the bookstore". just fingerspelling. And i have kind of dropped in hints and tried to encourage him to use sign but he doesn't want to learn sign. Most of my fellow front ensemble members have met me half way and have made the effort to sign for me in case i am in need of help. Usually I'll look at one of them and they'll sign to me what i am suppose to be doing. They are doing well with it, not perfect signing but doing well.