Ann,
I did a little googling around, and I ran across two types of relay services that might fit what you're looking for. (Found this information at
Telecommunications Relay Service (TRS) | FCC.gov )
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Hearing Carry Over - Hearing Carry Over (HCO) is a type of TRS that allows a person with a speech disability, but who wants to use his/her own hearing, to listen to the called party and type his/her part of the conversation on a TTY. The CA reads these words to the called party, and the caller hears responses directly from the called party."
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Speech-to-Speech (STS) Relay Service - This form of TRS is used by a person with a speech disability. A CA (
who is specially trained in understanding a variety of speech disorders) repeats what the caller says in a manner that makes the caller's words clear and understandable to the called party. No special telephone is needed. For more information regarding STS visit
www.fcc.gov/guides/speech-speech-relay-service ."
As far as service providers, google turned up a lot of state-specific options for each. Not sure where you're located, so I'm only including the ones that seem to be national in the U.S.
AT&T Relay Services | Hearing Carry Over
AT&T Relay Services | Speech to Speech
Sprint Relay
As far as learning ASL goes, I can't help much since I'm just a student myself. I take classes at the local community college, which I would definitely recommend if that's offered near you. Our state school for the deaf also offers ASL classes, so that might be something to check into as well. I would also recommend getting involved with the Deaf community in your area if you can at all - it's really the best way to get practice and improve by leaps and bounds, everyone says (and I think, too).
Hope that helps.
Summer