Best Friend Bonds or Broken?

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how did u get bonding with ur best friend when sometimes the bad times comes in yall's way between u and ur best friend?
 
:dunno: I have so many friends I can talk to in person. :thumb: I don't like rumors nor gossips. One time a girlfriend of mine asked me about this other girlfriend of mine. I told her why not you ask her yourself (so that way I won't be part of the "rumor" or "gossip"). I hope they feel the same with me. :fingersx:
 
Originally posted by ChelEler
:dunno: I have so many friends I can talk to in person. :thumb: I don't like rumors nor gossips. One time a girlfriend of mine asked me about this other girlfriend of mine. I told her why not you ask her yourself (so that way I won't be part of the "rumor" or "gossip"). I hope they feel the same with me. :fingersx:
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I second that.. mmmm..
 
i almost lost my long time best friend which his ex gf ruin our friendship and trustworth ... I have been warn him about her .. but he was listen to her over me ... which it make me piss off cuz he should know better than this .. beccause we grew up together we never got into agrue or fight or become emenies.. until his ex show up into his life and ruin it ... so we fall apart for 4 years as i just found out that he was look for me so i went out and found him. He finally apologized to me about this as he explained to me what going on in these years which we were aparts.. he found out that his ex ruin all his friends !!! thats what it hit him and realized that I have nothing do with that stuffs ... I told him he is forgiven and he said next time he should listen to me because he knew that i wouldn't dream to fuck it up with him. and glad that we got back into best friend once again !!! and we still keep in touch with each other..
 
My bond with one friend is kinda of crushed - we are now on good terms, but we are not close as before.

I got mad at her as she stood me up THREE weeks BEFORE we are supposed to go to Europe together for backpacking back in 2001. And didn't give me the clear reason why she have to drop out. Later on, I found out she wanted to be with her boyfriend during the summer and the trip is only 6 weeks in plan. I could not believe my eyes that our 7 year friendship is chosen over 4 month boyfriend.

I was afraid to be alone during that time, that's why I dropped the trip myself as I cannot find other person to go with me. Sometimes I regert that I did not go alone. I thought I should go there alone, but at this point, with my situation where I stood with my life at this time, I know I have a good reason to drop.

Now, as I grew a lot in past 2 years during graduate school and internship - I feel brave enough to go to England and Spain alone this summer - as I know I will meet friends in there - so I don't mind doing some alone time at certain points.

This friend and I went a lot of emotional turmoil for few months after that situation - we usually agrue and cry to each other... we can feel tense from each other. We forgave each other which is hard. We still get in touch few months but I know things are not the same after what she did to me, after a year of plannin for a trip and backin off three weeks before we start it.

Other main reason why I was hurt, because she dropped a bomb with bad news the DAY before my birthday, so I spent my birthday being upset! Worst 24th birthday ever!
 
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Originally posted by Aphrodite
My bond with one friend is kinda of crushed - we are now on good terms, but we are not close as before.

I got mad at her as she stood me up THREE weeks BEFORE we are supposed to go to Europe together for backpacking back in 2001. And didn't give me the clear reason why she have to drop out. Later on, I found out she wanted to be with her boyfriend during the summer and the trip is only 6 weeks in plan. I could not believe my eyes that our 7 year friendship is chosen over 4 month boyfriend.

I was afraid to be alone during that time, that's why I dropped the trip myself as I cannot find other person to go with me. Sometimes I regert that I did not go alone. I thought I should go there alone, but at this point, with my situation where I stood with my life at this time, I know I have a good reason to drop.

Now, as I grew a lot in past 2 years during graduate school and internship - I feel brave enough to go to England and Spain alone this summer - as I know I will meet friends in there - so I don't mind doing some alone time at certain points.

This friend and I went a lot of emotional turmoil for few months after that situation - we usually agrue and cry to each other... we can feel tense from each other. We forgave each other which is hard. We still get in touch few months but I know things are not the same after what she did to me, after a year of plannin for a trip and backin off three weeks before we start it.

Other main reason why I was hurt, because she dropped a bomb with bad news the DAY before my birthday, so I spent my birthday being upset! Worst 24th birthday ever!
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i am sorry about that ... so i just figure out that u are 26 years old now right ?
 
Originally posted by knightwolf68
i am sorry about that ... so i just figure out that u are 26 years old now right ?
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No, I am not 26 yet - will be in few weeks.
 
I lost my good friend due to popularity. I might lose my other friend due to that. It breaks my heart man. We were friends since when we were little kids. And now when she went to a diffrent high school she ignores me. I also imed her so i can know how she doing. But she left me hanging without saying a word. The only word she said is "brb" and she never did. My other friend that she is also a friend of her said that she is being stuck up now and popular. So im not good enough for her to be my friend. That hurts. Even though I havent speak for her in a long time and I want to know how she doing. Eh its life.
 
had a really best friend but turn out it was FAKE best friend... a SO call best friend crap. Long story. She did alota shit to my life and I dont trust her the same. 9 years of friendship is SO wasted on her. Ugh!

Whatever... Later
 
Originally posted by Aphrodite
My bond with one friend is kinda of crushed - we are now on good terms, but we are not close as before.

I got mad at her as she stood me up THREE weeks BEFORE we are supposed to go to Europe together for backpacking back in 2001. And didn't give me the clear reason why she have to drop out. Later on, I found out she wanted to be with her boyfriend during the summer and the trip is only 6 weeks in plan. I could not believe my eyes that our 7 year friendship is chosen over 4 month boyfriend.

I was afraid to be alone during that time, that's why I dropped the trip myself as I cannot find other person to go with me. Sometimes I regert that I did not go alone. I thought I should go there alone, but at this point, with my situation where I stood with my life at this time, I know I have a good reason to drop.

Now, as I grew a lot in past 2 years during graduate school and internship - I feel brave enough to go to England and Spain alone this summer - as I know I will meet friends in there - so I don't mind doing some alone time at certain points.

This friend and I went a lot of emotional turmoil for few months after that situation - we usually agrue and cry to each other... we can feel tense from each other. We forgave each other which is hard. We still get in touch few months but I know things are not the same after what she did to me, after a year of plannin for a trip and backin off three weeks before we start it.

Other main reason why I was hurt, because she dropped a bomb with bad news the DAY before my birthday, so I spent my birthday being upset! Worst 24th birthday ever!
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THAT definately SUCKS big time damn Aphrodite :( but glad u got past that and is going to England and Spain this summer :) u will enjoy urself there im sure of that and tuff shit to that friend that dropped out 3 weeks prior to the trip -- she is missing out on something so enriching!!!!
 
hmm one best friend is broken bond forever cuz other friend told me I am retarded well :fu: to that bitch cuz I just realized how blessed I am to have friends I have that I met thru AOL and IRL and I'm sure they think I'm :crazy: but know what? I don't give a flying duck about what they think of me anyways if I was retarded i wud not be able to take care of myself so there u go ;)
 
Originally posted by funnybebe78
hmm one best friend is broken bond forever cuz other friend told me I am retarded well :fu: to that bitch cuz I just realized how blessed I am to have friends I have that I met thru AOL and IRL and I'm sure they think I'm :crazy: but know what? I don't give a flying duck about what they think of me anyways if I was retarded i wud not be able to take care of myself so there u go ;)
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u GOOOOOO Purrs!!!!!!! dont worry abt her (i know who u are talking abt ;) ) -- u be YERSELF!!!!!!!
 
Originally posted by funnybebe78
hmm one best friend is broken bond forever cuz other friend told me I am retarded well :fu: to that bitch cuz I just realized how blessed I am to have friends I have that I met thru AOL and IRL and I'm sure they think I'm :crazy: but know what? I don't give a flying duck about what they think of me anyways if I was retarded i wud not be able to take care of myself so there u go ;)
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Hee hee.. you go gurl. That girl is idiot. You have plenty of friends..no worries. She loses more and more buddies, so she'd better watch out!! :laugh2:
 
Well, I have several friendship bonds broken. Some of them from Ohio claimed that they will visit me in West Coast, but guess what? Only five visited me in West Coast.. no one else (speaking of native OHIO). I had visited them in OHIO since 1996. They wanted to see my face in OHIO, but why not they come here to see my face??? Nah, they don't bother visiting me. Ok, it is their loss. I have other buddies from other states rather than OHIO. RME.:crazy:
 
we agree to avoid some topics like politics and religion, also it is better to drop the subject and just move on....I mean if the friendship is worth it.
 
I used to have a best friend, now I don't anymore. Right now, I'm not having any more best friends, just good friends..that's all :D
 
wow at each post, i did used to have a 3 or 4 best friends and they just had fucked up themselves especially me, i m lucky gal out of their group but now we re being good friends now... :dunno: daily life changes...
 
i had a best friend when i was in HS and after HS we stayed in touch with eachother til all hell broke loose cuz of her stupid husband (hes her HS sweetheart and later hubby) :roll: so since then ive not spoken to her cuz i just simply do NOT trust her husband -- hes BAD news and ive expressed that as it is and left it alone -- now :dunno: where she is but last heard shes moved to NC --

i have a few close buddies too and theyre scattered all over the USA LOL oh well -- we TRY to hook up at least once a year and have a great time together :) (all my buddies are also buddies for eachother too so its fun when we all get together as a group LOL and we all get pretty :crazy: and be :laugh2: all nite long!! hehehe)
 
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