Beauty or Heart...

sequoias said:
Well, I have noticed that many women don't find me attractive looking. They just run off and don't talk to me anymore. I don't look THAT bad, geez! Women should be after personality and heart, not what a guy looks like. Same goes for guys who are after women, too. The funny thing is that in the wild, animals go for animals that are attractive looking.
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I know some unattractive guys, and yet the girls are crazy about him...It's all about the personality.

and you don't need to be letting your hair and beard grow wild. It's a sign of laziness for some girls.
 
For me, I don't care about beauty - I know it is not important. I know some girls falls for the uneccessary things such as hot, gorgues (sp), guys with 6 pack, whatever girls fall in that cateory, won't be married to their dream guy. *rme* No offence, AD'ers.

Personaility is important for me.
 
I know one guy who is very handsome... and has a good heart... Everyone says he is a good looking guy but no one really want to date him because he is somewhat, I don't know, goofy I guess.
 
I know some unattractive guys, and yet the girls are crazy about him...It's all about the personality.
and you don't need to be letting your hair and beard grow wild. It's a sign of laziness for some girls.
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Remember, you don't know me at all. It doesn't mean I'm lazy, it can mean other reason....cost. Haircut is $15....food and gas is important because it's survival. You need to be careful what you say. Thank you.
 
Rainshower77 said:
I know one guy who is very handsome... and has a good heart... Everyone says he is a good looking guy but no one really want to date him because he is somewhat, I don't know, goofy I guess.
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As long he not a crazy manic, then settle for the goofy ones lol :giggle:
 
Heart and decent looking, those who don't care about themselves to sustain a decent level of health are not worthwhile either.
 
sequoias said:
Remember, you don't know me at all. It doesn't mean I'm lazy, it can mean other reason....cost. Haircut is $15....food and gas is important because it's survival. You need to be careful what you say. Thank you.
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If men are not going to get a haircut, At least wash and comb it.. I seen some guys who don't even do this.. harshly, girls do look down on men who can't even afford a haircut... afterall, in their mind, it is all about survival and that means stay away from guys who are too poor... because they afraid that guy would probably wouldn't be able to provide for them and their future family. Now if he is in college, then that's a different story.
 
well this guy I was referring to is not a nerd.. he is not a manic either.. he has a different type of goofiness. I can't really explain it.

or maybe I can...

He is good looking, but once he open his mouth...it's a different story.

He is always saying something stupid - one time he told me that he saw my mother with my sister... and asked me if my mother is the one with a big butt?!!!


he did not say it just to be mean, It was just one of those things he blurt out without thinking.
 
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Well a down to earth personality is definitely a plus. Go with that alone. Don't stick to stereotypical lifestyles. :)
 
I remember that Brittany Spear never comb her hair. Her hair become so dirty and oily. Many boys want her because of her money! Sigh She can afford have someone do her hair. I don't understand why Kevin want her even her hair is so gross. I believe that he want her all money. She is very rich lady.
 
lilylover72 said:
I remember that Brittany Spear never comb her hair. Her hair become so dirty and oily. Many boys want her because of her money! Sigh She can afford have someone do her hair. I don't understand why Kevin want her even her hair is so gross. I believe that he want her all money. She is very rich lady.
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:barf:
 
NorCal20 said:
Most of guys wants to have ladies to reveal a lot of skins...
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*nodding* Very true! I've noticed that, too. It's not for me. I prefer to be a woman that is HARD for a man to GET! Heh heh
 
norcal, I'm sure you know the answer. ;)

but, news flash; that's how the world is at its heart.
 
Jclarke said:
For me, I don't care about beauty - I know it is not important. I know some girls falls for the uneccessary things such as hot, gorgues (sp), guys with 6 pack, whatever girls fall in that cateory, won't be married to their dream guy. *rme* No offence, AD'ers.

Personaility is important for me.
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I agree personality is good quality and good chemistry too :)
 
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