ember
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I don't consider sharing a basic information about yourself (name, where you live, what do you do for living, what college did you graduate from, etc.) as intimate details...
You don't need to tell me how many boyfriends you went thru... or what toy you keep in your drawer... or what your eating routine is... or what your weight is...
it's a social norm as conversation ice breaker (ASL, spoken language, internet, etc) to make a good impression with anybody in order to form a relationship - client, friend, etc. If we don't know anything about you, we most likely won't consider you as our terp for next time. nothing personal but it's how it is. same for an employer - they want a team player, not solo player. Teamwork works better if we know each other's life story.
I disagree my employer values my work not my life history and I never said in intimate relationships I don't share because when I trust someone I do. I've shared plenty with a person from here and I've mentioned that before.
And I am not interested in any way in being an interpreter