caz
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True that though
yes it is true...We in West are shown negative side forced marriage child etc..A true arranged marriage nothing like that..
True that though
yes it is true...We in West are shown negative side forced marriage child etc..A true arranged marriage nothing like that..
Passion is fleeting, I agree. Having core beliefs in common makes things easier, but having both of those, passion and core beliefs, I think that gives you the greatest chance for success. The passion helps form a fast bond, then the common core beliefs help sustain it.believe me passion can go very quickly when you find out what and who that person is..I think we in the west are very judgemental of ways things are done in India there are a lot of bad marriages but no more than anywhere else proberly less.Sex is not surppose be most important thing but guess it must bc children are important
People blessed to find perfect mate if one exists
Works for me.Marry the best friend is highly chance the marriage stay forever.
Marry the best friend is highly chance the marriage stay forever.
Passion is fleeting, I agree. Having core beliefs in common makes things easier, but having both of those, passion and core beliefs, I think that gives you the greatest chance for success. The passion helps form a fast bond, then the common core beliefs help sustain it.
"Perfect" as most people think of it is kind of just an illusion. We change so much as we age; a perfect relationship... I don't know what that really is. I like to think it involves compromise, listening, and caring as much as possible. Being able to take a heated argument, level it out, and come to an understanding between both people where you can look at each other and still want to hug, that's what makes a marriage last. It's getting through the rough spots, working with each other instead of against each other. When core beliefs are shared, I think that's a lot easier to do than when they're wildly different.
I think it's really cool when a couple that's been together stays friends in spite of a separation. I mean to have gotten married you clearly loved each other, so why throw it away completely? I think love comes in lots of forms, and people change over time, but that love doesn't seem to ever really go away.for me my husband is my friend and dad to my children I am very fond of him and I guess he loves me in his way visa versa he is good good man but he is gay so after last child we decided live our lives still together but seperatly..We proberly have better life we not clipped at hip like many couples are he do anything I wanted but he has part of his life I don't share and don't want to
I wouldnt marry someone that I didnt love. I cant imagine having sex with a person that I dont have feeling for.
Which one is best? I know its really hard to answer lol
I think it's really cool when a couple that's been together stays friends in spite of a separation. I mean to have gotten married you clearly loved each other, so why throw it away completely? I think love comes in lots of forms, and people change over time, but that love doesn't seem to ever really go away.
The ones who can't stay friends, I think they just don't want to. That makes sense too, it'd be hard to have such an important relationship change so much but still be close, but not as close as you want. I think either way is good, just depends on the people and what works for them.
we like brother and sister happy with that and like many brother/sister we have blazing rows then we totally forget what they were about..People who say they never had cross word in marriage have got a boring one but if they happy then fair play.
Little village called Dunmow Essex England if you can prove never had row in fifteen years you get a flitch of ham/bacon,how they prove no idea but it a custom 100s of years old