are you planning getting married one days?

rabbit said:
:werd: I'm so tired of seeing all these people getting divorced... it ISN'T always the answer, working THROUGH your problems will make you closer.
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Well...my ex hubby left me for another woman cuz he said I wasnt the woman he married. He said he married a "hearing" Shel and I was changing to a "deaf" Shel while at Gallaudet so he had an affair with a woman and left me for her. I had no choice but to get divorced cuz I wasnt living like that. Divorce was the answer for me cuz he really looked down on me throghout our marriage and it got to the point where I believed that everything was my fault and he was always right. Not a healthy marriage, right?
 
rabbit said:
:werd: I'm so tired of seeing all these people getting divorced... it ISN'T always the answer, working THROUGH your problems will make you closer.
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well, sometimes people can't work out all the problems in the relationship.. so it's better to make a clean break of it. And sometimes there is something that happened during the marriage that one party can't forgive, like abuse or cheating or lying.. it's an individual decision. Yes, problems can be worked out, but not always. Sometimes People just marry for the wrong reasons. Yeah, sometimes working out the problems can help.. but it takes 2 to work it all out. and If one person is not willing to work on it, then there's not much point.


I'd like to remarry someday, but I'm not going to rush into it.
 
BearBeauty said:
well, sometimes people can't work out all the problems in the relationship.. so it's better to make a clean break of it. And sometimes there is something that happened during the marriage that one party can't forgive, like abuse or cheating or lying.. it's an individual decision. Yes, problems can be worked out, but not always. Sometimes People just marry for the wrong reasons. Yeah, sometimes working out the problems can help.. but it takes 2 to work it all out. and If one person is not willing to work on it, then there's not much point.


I'd like to remarry someday, but I'm not going to rush into it.
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Yea...my friend is going thru that with her hubby. She is trying to work out all the problems but with him, it is his way or nothing. Someday, she is gonna get fed up with him. I couldnt live with someone like that..sometimes, people dont show their true colors after getting married and u are like "oh shit!" ...
 
I'm happy being married, but in the circumstance that I end up getting divorced, I'm NOT going to get re-married.
 
Sorry About Shel90. She Said No..you Are Not Scammer!
Shel90 Is Very Innocent.
I Did Said That...sound Like You Are Scammer!! Because You Use Some Same Message From Old Post About Getting Married And Invite You All To Your Wedding..we All Try Help You. But You Closed The Post. And Now This Is Your New Post And Same News.. About Wedding..
Thats Why I Try Help People..dont Waste Time To Help You Because You Fall In Love With Guy Who Work In Africa.
Hope Everything Go Well With You And Your Guy..its Your Choice. (smile)
 
rabbit said:
:werd: I'm so tired of seeing all these people getting divorced... it ISN'T always the answer, working THROUGH your problems will make you closer.
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I tried for 15 years, the abuse did not stop, so I rather to live than die at the end...
 
Angel said:
I tried for 15 years, the abuse did not stop, so I rather to live than die at the end...
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I am sorry!!! :hug: Leaving him was the best thing for u!
 
Angel said:
I tried for 15 years, the abuse did not stop, so I rather to live than die at the end...
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I remembered... when I first met you in DeafTalk... you did told me that your lawyer took pictures of your brusies and the house that your ex husband destroyed???... I remembered you were filing for a divorce because of domestic violences... I am glad you are happy now....
 
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