Lighthouse77
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eek! change the title to "warning: graphic!"
Terrified. They hurt badly. I never believed in lying to children, so I always made a point to let them know it really hurts if I knew they would have to have a shot.
Had the opposite reaction. They both always insisted that shots absolutely do not hurt.
Maybe I got such terror because when I first remember shots, I had no communication.
Actually, sometimes telling them it hurt make them tense. My son goes in allergy shots and I told him that it will hurt, but the hurt will go away quickly. He found it comforting that the hurt will go away quickly.
My children are grown up. Quite successful and one has two children of her own. They both hear so can understand at a young age.
I had no idea how to parent because when I was I small child I did not know what was going on due to autism and deafness.
I hope I have made this clear to all. Whether right or wrong to tell kids a shot hurts, my two kids grew up and they love me.
Also they think my shot terror is funny.
Autistic people usually have a terrible problem with telling lies. And by that I mean it is usually almost impossible. There are even classes in public schools today to work with autistic people on the nicety of social lies.
I eat needles for breakfast.
If I had a couple laying around I'd youtube me piercing myself.
I want to change my vote.
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I eat needles for breakfast.
If I had a couple laying around I'd youtube me piercing myself.
I was just thinking to myself... I would rather be pierced than have a shot, is that bizarre? o_O
Pause the movie...thats evil!
Hairy spiders...actually my wife is terrified of them too :roll:...I sense another poll idea...
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I don't really like needles cuz my veins are so small.....hard to get my blood drawn...same with IV...ugh!
Getting shots does sucks too!
My children are grown up. Quite successful and one has two children of her own. They both hear so can understand at a young age.
I had no idea how to parent because when I was I small child I did not know what was going on due to autism and deafness.
I hope I have made this clear to all. Whether right or wrong to tell kids a shot hurts, my two kids grew up and they love me.
Also they think my shot terror is funny.
I hope you didn't think I was lying to my kids. I just didn't want them to be scared. I have no problem and wanted them to be able to live through them as well. The kids know they hurt, but they put on a brave face now and will still try to giggle. It really freaks out the person giving the shot.
No big deal, just saying that some children get tense. I think it depends on the child and you know what works. you can tell he is handling it well so no need to add anything to it. I found it that it didn't work for my son telling him that it will hurt, when I saw he was getting a little scared, I knew I had to do something so I quickly told him not to worry, the hurt will go away quickly. that's when he felt alittle better.