it's not really that interesting. a year or two has passed since you've participated in deaf-related threads and now you just find it interesting?
it's sad. very sad. and extremely disappointing considering the fact that this has been going on for decades. exactly same reasoning. exactly same behavior. exactly same options.
that's why we're fighting to make them aware of ANOTHER option that has a high yield of positive results. it's pretty effective and it's cost-effective with low risk because it has multi-methods at once. we're also fighting to make them CONSIDER it along with other options because currently - the option we're fighting for is not included in most places that give advices to parents in this matter. in fact - most parents either have never heard of it or quickly disregard it due to their own personal bias and "well-advertised & well-constructed opinions"by oralists.... and also from people like you who continue to derail and distract our efforts without really understanding the issue.
Here's a real issue - the common option that most parents picked for decades... it has only one method and if that method failed - it's already too late to try another method since the crucial time period of mental/language/intellectual development has already passed. 3 years. that's how short that crucial time period is. that's why many of us are developmentally delayed. The option we want has dual methods (or more). If one method fails, there's already another method in place. How great is that??? It's an inclusive method.
and yet... you're sitting around with a smirk on your face and talking like an annoying parrot - "I support parents", "I disagree", and some generic response without understanding the underlying issue? you've just basically proved my point about vicious cycle that never changes.
try to remember this and repeat it yourself over and over again -
1. we do not care if deaf people want to hear.
2. we do not care if deaf people want to talk.
3. we do not care if deaf people do not want to sign.
we...... just...... don't...... care....... your life. your choice. fine by us!
4. we do care if deaf kids are struggling.
5. we do care if deaf kids are developmentally delayed because of a common option that most parents pick.
6. we do care if deaf kids are not living up to promise that most parents hoped for - to be able to hear and talk. it's a child abuse. period.