Anyone Sell Confidence or Guts?

[Lil_country_gal]

Ok well after my Gf got taken away i went back to my normal life hanging with the guys fixing cars. Everything was great till my heart found another person to let me drool over. Who my heart thinks is the mirror image of perfection. Let me explain this heart throb his name is Nate and he is a senior hot as ever. Is in love with cars has a sexy El Camino and three other cars. He's a working man. Is sweet kind hearted. and his smile is infectionious. Now i have a feeling some of you are going why don't you just ask him out there is my problem. I've tried to ask him out everyday for two and a half weeks and each time i like him so much and get so nervous i can't even say hi. Yea i can have a conversation with him as friends but than as soon as i wanna ask him out bam i become a little girl with a puppy love crush on the class cutie.

Lord help me Does anyone Have any Ideas of how i can i've tried telling him up front writing him a note and if all else fails i will just give a note to my friend to give to him HELP!!!!

 

[coloravalanche]

First of all, to be honest with you...I am proud of you that you decided to be with a guy instead of a girl...It is not God's idea for any of us to be G/L/B...It is His idea for man and woman to become one and have family...

Anyway, my advice is for you NOT to give your friend a note to give it to him...it is immature way to do it...Why not you ask him if he would like to go movie or walk in the park, or something simple...do not chase after him...guys doesnt like that...guys likes to persue girls...

I suspect he must be hearing, am I right or not? do not tell him you like him yet....just be friends...tell him you would like to do something for fun...dont rush too fast...take it slow...good luck!

 

[Lil_country_gal]

First of all, to be honest with you...I am proud of you that you decided to be with a guy instead of a girl...It is not God's idea for any of us to be G/L/B...It is His idea for man and woman to become one and have family...

Don't even start with me on that. I loved my girlfriend and would love to still be with her.

Anyway, my advice is for you NOT to give your friend a note to give it to him...it is immature way to do it...Why not you ask him if he would like to go movie or walk in the park, or something simple...do not chase after him...guys doesnt like that...guys likes to persue girls...

I've tried to ask him if you saw that i said i've tried to ask him out in coversation but i get to nervous. and i don't chase after him he's simply one of my friends right now i equally hang out with each of the guys so one doesn't feel left out ( i am the only girl)

I suspect he must be hearing, am I right or not? do not tell him you like him yet....just be friends...tell him you would like to do something for fun...dont rush too fast...take it slow...good luck!

he is hearing he doesn't know i'm hoh yet i've been friends with him for so long so i really have been taking it slow. I mean alll the guys and i go out for lunch and crap like that it's just the auto thing we're a huge family so that's why i wanna take it to the next step cause i really like him mmore than anything lol

 

[Angel_Realm]

First of all, to be honest with you...I am proud of you that you decided to be with a guy instead of a girl...It is not God's idea for any of us to be G/L/B...It is His idea for man and woman to become one and have family...

I agree with lil_country_gal so don't use god in any type of relationship. God love anybody regarding of any sexual attraction according to this passage:

"Let us therefore no longer pass judgment on one another, but resolve instead never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of another. I know and am persuaded in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself; but it is unclean for anyone who thinks it unclean."[14:13-14]

Anyway, my advice is for you NOT to give your friend a note to give it to him...it is immature way to do it...Why not you ask him if he would like to go movie or walk in the park, or something simple...do not chase after him...guys doesnt like that...guys likes to persue girls...

Lil_country_gal, your in high school right? There is nothing wrong with passing a note to the hottest guy as you are tongue tied. Eventually once you learn how to ask a person out, you will be less tongue-tied. I have done it few times in high school.

Good luck with asking him out.

 

[coloravalanche]

I agree with lil_country_gal so don't use god in any type of relationship. God love anybody regarding of any sexual attraction according to this passage:

"Let us therefore no longer pass judgment on one another, but resolve instead never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of another. I know and am persuaded in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself; but it is unclean for anyone who thinks it unclean."[14:13-14]

What type of Bible are you using? KJ Version or ?? Yes, I agree with you that God loves us all BUT He did not create for us to be lesbians or gays...His purposes for man and woman to become one and conceived children..His purposes is not for lesbians or gays...It is Satan's work to decieved people's minds and pull them away from obeying God...

I have gay friend who cuts my hair all times...I have lesbian friends...BUT I dont judge them...I dont tell them that they will go to hell...I do tell them my beliefs and what's the Bible says...however, we respect each others...As we are christians, we are responsible to speak the truth from the Bible....After I tell/share with them about these truth...I leave them alone between them and God...

 

[Lil_country_gal]

I agree with lil_country_gal so don't use god in any type of relationship. God love anybody regarding of any sexual attraction according to this passage:

"Let us therefore no longer pass judgment on one another, but resolve instead never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of another. I know and am persuaded in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself; but it is unclean for anyone who thinks it unclean."[14:13-14]



Lil_country_gal, your in high school right? There is nothing wrong with passing a note to the hottest guy as you are tongue tied. Eventually once you learn how to ask a person out, you will be less tongue-tied. I have done it few times in high school.

Good luck with asking him out.

Angel_Realm Number one thank you for standing up for me and yea so it's ok if i have my friend give him the note i mean they are good friends and my friend offered to do it i didn't ask him to idk does anyone know how i feel like u like them so much the mear thought of them gives you butterfly's

 

[Lil_country_gal]

What type of Bible are you using? KJ Version or ?? Yes, I agree with you that God loves us all BUT He did not create for us to be lesbians or gays...His purposes for man and woman to become one and conceived children..His purposes is not for lesbians or gays...It is Satan's work to decieved people's minds and pull them away from obeying God...

I have gay friend who cuts my hair all times...I have lesbian friends...BUT I dont judge them...I dont tell them that they will go to hell...I do tell them my beliefs and what's the Bible says...however, we respect each others...As we are christians, we are responsible to speak the truth from the Bible....After I tell/share with them about these truth...I leave them alone between them and God...

OK hello way off topic here this has nothing to do with the fourm allright please take this conversation somewhere else

 

[Angel_Realm]

Well another way is to tell him that you like him and would like to go to a car show or something.....

 

[Lil_country_gal]

Well another way is to tell him that you like him and would like to go to a car show or something.....

I never thought of that i will have to see if there is a car show before prom lol that's where i wanna go with im somthing terriable

 

[Nesmuth]

I seen something like this on American Chopper show way back then with the guys making the fancy bikes. A guy dumps his gf to go after another guy.

Richard

 

[Angel_Realm]

Prom coming up soon.....mmm.... well what i did to the guy that i asked as a friend as i am a lez and i was making my parents happy so i asked him by creating a lil card saying "Be my date for 2002 formal". I cannot see any car show coming up..... so grab him while you can.....

 

[Lil_country_gal]

I seen something like this on American Chopper show way back then with the guys making the fancy bikes. A guy dumps his gf to go after another guy.

Richard

OK way off topic here it's not like that at all i simply like this guy and i want to go out with him i didn't dump anybody for him or anything like that people are twisting my words

 

[Lil_country_gal]

Prom coming up soon.....mmm.... well what i did to the guy that i asked as a friend as i am a lez and i was making my parents happy so i asked him by creating a lil card saying "Be my date for 2002 formal". I cannot see any car show coming up..... so grab him while you can.....

Tomarow i am seriously gonna get this guy hook line and sinker. If not i'm screwed and might as well ask one of my girlfriends to come with me as friends since they are all straight gotta love it i wonder if i could just put a little card saying the " Be my date for 2006 formal" and hang it from his rear veiw mirror what do you think?

 

[Heath]

Tomarow i am seriously gonna get this guy hook line and sinker. If not i'm screwed and might as well ask one of my girlfriends to come with me as friends since they are all straight gotta love it i wonder if i could just put a little card saying the " Be my date for 2006 formal" and hang it from his rear veiw mirror what do you think?

Make sure to have a nice picture of yourself with a scent and a kiss, a small personal note included with your " Be my date for 2006 formal " and God Bless !!!!

I hope he will be a gentleman and take you to the dance.

 

[Y]

Leave a card there might NOT be a good idea
what IF he never see that card !!!

Since both of you fix cars.... then
You could secretly put that card under
the car and tell him that you saw something
strange under the car and then he will
go under the car with you... then be sure
that he see that card somewhere under the car
and let him open that card front of you
"I would like to go to my high school prom
with you this Friday" and see how would
he react. Most men/boys would love to
get invited to go to proms !!!

But, pray about this FIRST then do it Smile...

 

[Lil_country_gal]

Leave a card there might NOT be a good idea
what IF he never see that card !!!

Since both of you fix cars.... then
You could secretly put that card under
the car and tell him that you saw something
strange under the car and then he will
go under the car with you... then be sure
that he see that card somewhere under the car
and let him open that card front of you
"I would like to go to my high school prom
with you this Friday" and see how would
he react. Most men/boys would love to
get invited to go to proms !!!

But, pray about this FIRST then do it Smile...

Hey smart Y and Angel_Realm if i get this date i owe both of you major You've combined each others designed and made it into an amazing plan. Tuesday is auto so for sure his car will be in the autp shop i will tape it on his muffler and tell him i saw somthing funky with the underside of his muffler bend down show him exactly where and idk where i'll go from there lol any ideas from there?

 

[LisaMarie]

Well...im Really Good At Matchmaking!! Trust Me Because I Did With A Couple Friends Of Mine Nd They Ended Up Married!! Not Only It Happen Once But It Happened Twice!! Hehe.. Anyway...
I Think You Just Follow The Flow.. Simply.. Really.. Follow The Flow.. If U Feel Its Right.. Ask Him Out.. If U Cant Or Dont Know How Or Afraid... Just Ask Him To Show You His Car! Then It Might Will Lead To Something From There! Or Simply Ask Him If He Have A Gf? Play Dumb If He Say No.. U Shld Say Oh You Are Too Cute To Be Single!! Heheh It Worked On Me!

 

[knightwolf68]

It is ok to be nervous to ask him out but here is some idea maybe u just leave the notes say " someone is interest in you and wondering if ur interest to meet me somewhere alone and ( give him the location and time to meet) and here is ur secert adimers "

Then when times come and just wait somewhere and give him an hr if pass then u will know that he isn't interest to find out who is his secert admiers

Just an idea take it or not

I find it so spontouns (sp?)

 

[Lil_country_gal]

Well it happened i was gonna put it on his car had to give it to my friend he got it and read it but here's what happened gave the note to my friend when i was outside with all three of them went running inside and friend gave note i hid in the office and than when i heard the door open i ran to our coffe shop forgetting my stuff yes i know smooth and i haven't seen him since but hey i'm a big chicken i know it maybe he will see it as cute how i like him so much and i was so scared cause i like him that much he will want to

 

[Angel_Realm]

Ouch, that is a bit of embarrassment since his friends knows too.... well hope for the best.... and nothing bad about takin a girl to a prom..... as least they will enjoy themselves.