jenni-m. Have you tried SEE (signing exact English?) There are some Dhh folks who for some reason or another don't undy ASL.
Have not tried that, no, but thank you for suggesting. I do ok with finger spelling and the signs I already know (and have 'made up'), and it is easier for me to know what is being said, by feeling their hands if necessary, as I can't follow the movements and hand positions very well. But this might be something I would study one day.