Anybody feel how i feel?

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I dislike talking/signing to people, i hate meeting new people, if i am with a person they have to initiate the convo because i never know what to say to them. I am nervous/shy around new people, not got much confidence, i don tlike doing presentations at college because i worry that if i dont pronouce words correctly or something that people will laugh at me, iv always felt like this.
I am also obsessive at times e.g every time i am walking outside i have to check my shoes every ten mins or so, or if im going abroad and getting ready to board a plane i HAVE to check my implant constantly to check if it is off. also if im out in a new place e.g london i havbe to check constantly if i have my phone, purse. Also at nights sometimes if a person who lives in my house is out and will be coming home later on i cannot sleep till i know they are home. Sometimes i also check if doors locked.
 
I feel the same, but frankly, I don't give a crap, cause all I wanna do is live. I'll do this, that, and not that. You should stop caring about A LOT OF THINGS. Be a bit selfish once a while but do the selfless acts.

Just take it down a bit on your emotions and start beating it up with logic in your head. If you can't, I'd say you need some break from whatever you are doing and walk the path again, so you can feel comfortable doing things again that you already know because it already happened to you and when you're ready, you can be in the open field with people, naked.
 
lilylover72 said:
You are soo negetive! :roll:
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That wasnt nice of you to say. He/she came here looking for some advice, not your attitude.

Have you seen your doctor about your overcompulsiveness? Perhaps get therapy and some meds to assist you with this - no one should live like this with such anxieties.

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Excuse me, I am sorry if I offend you guys. Whatever you think. I am not worrying about what do you think about me. I am more happy and trying to be positive.
 
society's_child said:
I think you may be oversimplfying the problem. :| More than negativity at work here.
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I dont understand what all this negativity is about? there is no negativity in my post. next time i wont even bother posting if your all like that
 
Deafteen90 said:
I dont understand what all this negativity is about? there is no negativity in my post. next time i wont even bother posting if your all like that
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Then stop caring about what others think about you. Start making your own rules, be strong, and leave any emotion out of your thinking.
 
Deafteen90 said:
I dont understand what all this negativity is about? there is no negativity in my post. next time i wont even bother posting if your all like that
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We are usually all like that. Many times we are even worse. This is not a forum for the fainthearted.

But I think you have OCD and need to see a psychiatrist and get medicine.
 
Deafteen90 said:
I dont understand what all this negativity is about? there is no negativity in my post. next time i wont even bother posting if your all like that
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I'm sorry there's a misunderstanding here...my comment above was not directed at you. I was responding to lilylover72 initial response.
 
I would suggest you to go to the consuler, the consuler is always there for you to talk with and help you. Living with that won't help unless you change it, but don't have to be a big change, just a little change a once a day, you will find yourself being happy with yourself :)
 
lilylover72 said:
Excuse me, I am sorry if I offend you guys. Whatever you think. I am not worrying about what do you think about me. I am more happy and trying to be positive.
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Well, he isn't being negative. I think it sounds more like a case of social anxiety and possibly OCD.
 
Deafteen90 said:
I dont understand what all this negativity is about? there is no negativity in my post. next time i wont even bother posting if your all like that
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Deafteen, ignore Lilylover. She's being rude. She does not understand. But I understand, so keep coming back and posting here. Please don't stop.
 
Deafteen90 said:
I dislike talking/signing to people, i hate meeting new people, if i am with a person they have to initiate the convo because i never know what to say to them. I am nervous/shy around new people, not got much confidence, i don tlike doing presentations at college because i worry that if i dont pronouce words correctly or something that people will laugh at me, iv always felt like this.
I am also obsessive at times e.g every time i am walking outside i have to check my shoes every ten mins or so, or if im going abroad and getting ready to board a plane i HAVE to check my implant constantly to check if it is off. also if im out in a new place e.g london i havbe to check constantly if i have my phone, purse. Also at nights sometimes if a person who lives in my house is out and will be coming home later on i cannot sleep till i know they are home. Sometimes i also check if doors locked.
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Deafteen,

I'm not a doctor, but it sounds to me as if you may have OCD. I would find a psychiatrist for meds and a counselor for therapy. Meds and therapy are the best combination for dealing with OCD. Good luck! :)
 
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