Lighthouse77
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Generally I wish I had ASL classes when I was a kid. Everyone was so focused on me being "normal" that I was sent to speech therapists and audiologists. I was very naive so I never noticed that not everyone signed and not everyone voiced. It didn't matter to me. I didn't know we were "disabled" and that people thought we were dumb. (Even though lots of unfair things happened to us.) I didn't understand why my older brother would get teased.
I got separated from my family when I was nine. I got sent to go live with hearing people who didn't understand about Deaf culture. Now I am not fluent in ASL anymore. It hurts my feelings when my mom signs slowly to me and when she voices to me. I believe that ASL grammar AND English would have allowed me to keep both languages and continue to speak them both fluently.
yes, I agree, you should keep both. It was very unfair for your family to hold you back from communicating with your deaf family (ASL) so you could have a nice flow of conversation with them. Family are more important than fitting in society.
Unfortunately we get teased no matter what and there was nothing we could do to change that (that is, become "hearing" like them).