I am pretty shame where the thread was going at, This has nothing to do with being an attention seeker unless some of you are jealous of her? She left for a good reason, Take her place for one moment here and ask yourself, Would you put up with bullshit from members that dislike you and hold grudge about you for a long time and never let the past be gone by gone? Holding a grudge only harms the person who is holding the grudge. It sucks to have members like that here in AllDeaf, What happened to forgive and forget? Doesn't anyone practice that anymore? Life is too short to based on something that happened a year ago or two or three or even couple of months ago.
Most of us have been a member here for so long and the bitter still around, Why? When is this ever going to end? There used to be some members that I fought with couple months back and a year ago, I forgave them and move on, I treat them with respect when I'm posting in Alldeaf, even through our friendship isn't the same, I hope down the road it might change, I don't expect it to happen overnight. But, it's all about forgiving when you forgive, It gives you peace of mind. When you don't forgive, You just losing your mind. Why do you want to continuing to suffer for what they did or didn't do to you? You only making yourself go crazy. Is all this worth it? Not to me it isn't.
I've learned to forgive a lot of people because why waste my energy further on this matter? It will not get me anywhere in life, I wouldn't be able to move on be happy if I hold onto something that isn't worth being mad over. I don't understand why members cannot do the same thing, Even something so little is it worth getting so angry over? If yes, Then go ahead make your life miserable.
It's like this, If you dislike someone, Take it out of AllDeaf because this is not a place for soap operas.
Most of you know ^Angel^, How she is as a person. She stood up for most of you members, She even stood up for those who had less friends. She is that type of person that will go her way help someone in needs. So whatever happened in the past should stay in the past, Learn to forgive and forget because when you don't you are only going to lose.
(My statement is not pointing fingers at anyone, I'm speaking generally for everyone to understand the position of forgiving and holding grudge)