Truly an interesting topic, isn't it? Amish and Mennonites are NOT cults. They are Christians just like you and I but with huge differences: They do not believe in materialism like you and I do today. They broke off from the rest of the world back in 1830s. That is the decade both religions believe to maintain. However, Mennonites has broken off some time ago. They tend to accept some materialism that I call it, necessities. Like you have to have a car today to go to work. No car? You can not get a job. That is the way modern world works nowdays.
Car, phone, and limited electrical appliances are acceptable by the Mennonites. Amish, on the other hand, totally rejected materialism. I recalled over 20 years ago from someone telling me that there is an emphesis biblical verse both Amish and Mennonites believe in that they should reject materialism and idolism. For idols, clearly stated from the First Two Commandments: Exodus 20:1 and 2 Thou shalt not make any graven image (idol) clearly stated to the Amish in their interpretation (my opinon of what they think) that means no technical stuff such as computers, TV, etc. They think TV, computers, cars, etc are idols. Why? Let me ask you this question, ok? Are you pretty much addicted to TV and computers these days? If not, pretty much what you are doing by watching TV or be on the computer for hours compared to reading the bible daily?
That is what I believe an Amish and a Mennonite would say to you if they are allowed to speak with you. Again, OPINON of mine.
I have seen a mennonite every blue moon around Upstate NY. Seen them at Greyhound Bus stations, seen their products made for the outsiders! Yes! Even Amish makes products to sell! Specially Recreational Vehicles and boats. Check online about Starcraft company. I have a few brochures stated that it was built by Amish and/or Mennonites.
I have seen Amish in Lancaster one Summer back in mid-90s when I was at a Deaf Singles Camp (no longer exists, sorry singles!) near Lancaster and we singles went into town to check it out. I was in awe seeing this HUGE body of a teenager (built like a body builder and good looking enough for women to swoon.) standing on a plow just hanging onto the straps of 3 or 4 large bulls at a fairly high speed by the corner near the road I drove by. A deaf man who was riding with me gasped. I really gasped hard! I mean HUUUUUGE!
I read someone's post eariler about deafness in a family. Well, that is common because my mother spoke with a mennonite woman who makes quilts for their community and the English. Well, the woman told my mom about disabilities are common in the Amish and Mennonites because there are not enough of their kind spread around. They all are practically relatives and they have no way to marry someone really different with different DNA. You see, if you marry your cousin or even your own sibilings, you are more likely to have children with disabilities or deform because of DNA markups.
If you marry someone unknown and not related to you at all, your children are more likely be fine than marrying someone closely related to you. It is really sad about Amish and Mennonites because of that matter. They do not have much choice to pick someone so different.
When I was on a mission trip to CentroAmerica. We were in Belize visiting a Deaf school. Very poor. No toilets, just outhouses, etc. We found out that it was run by a guy who was from Texas with American name but he is a Mennonite. Born into a Mennonite family. Well, the school is set near a Mennonite Community. They were Americans moved down there for better life. Yup, I visited their church. Girls sit on one side, boys the other. We--the mission group of 7 had to dress closely to their lifestyle. No wonder the teenage girls were after this one big guy on our team who is young and handsome. I really gasped at their lifestyle. Sadly, I can even see their yellow teeth!! Yuck! If you seen "Back to the Future, Pt III" when Marty and Doc are in 1885, the old timers had yellow teeth. That is correct! That is what they are!
Mennonites and perhaps Amish have very similar beliefs to the Baptists. Ok, look at the scale. Left side is materialism and right side is non-materialism. Amish is on the right side, Mennonites in the middle, and the Baptists on the left side. I learned that the Baptists do work with Mennonites sometimes. You can even see that Anabaptists is the name devorted from.
When I was down there in Belize, I thought I was in America. They brought German American lifestyle in Belize! There are Deaf Mennonites down there. Pretty big number of them there.
On a side note before closing this post, Bill Rice Ranch works with both Baptists and the Mennonites. That is why you can see at that camp in TN has a very few Mennonites attending along with Baptists. All Deaf.
My advise, go to Ohio and PA to see the Amish and Mennonites, not Bill Rice Ranch even you are a Christian. They are too emphesizing on you being born again, not spiritual growth.