Well, I'm not going to lie just to make people feel better. I say it as I see it.
Yes, you always say what you feel. I respect that.
For a person to get upset over the idea of a baby not being able to go to heaven if it is not baptized, that's a person getting worked over a popular superstition. I dismiss the concept of baptism as merely superstition, nothing more. To me, water is water, people cannot bless and turn plain water into holy water. Just like I don't believe God can speak to you through a priest during a confession. These things are all affiliated with religion, however all of these acts I mentioned are superstitious in my view. People sometimes are too credulous that it does more harm than good.
I consider them beliefs, not superstitions.
The reason why people are discouraged from discussing religion here at AD is because they get too worked up over it. I don't blame them for making the policy in the first place.
*shrugs*
That's life.