Afraid to love again with someone else....

Kalista said:
My Dad is widowed since 1990, he has not dating with anyone or remarried with someone else. I did not want to be like him. Need to move on with my life.

Thanks for sharing a story about your grandfather and grandmother. Glad, your grandmother remarried. Company, love, affectionate and intimacy are very healthy and stay life longer !
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I agree that you need to move on, Kalista, but you will move on when you are ready. Don't rush yourself. That will only end with you getting involved in a relationship that might not be the best for you. You will know when the time is right. We all go through our grief on our own time schedule.
 
Kalista said:
Andrew did mention that your husband is very nice guy when they were roommmates in MD. What a small world !! He is your secure man rest of your life. ;) I envy that he is a good cooking you good meals daily to treat you like a queen. I hate to cook sometime.
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LOL! yea, he is a good cook. During my son's speech therapy session, the speech therapist always get hungry from the aromas when he is cooking. She keeps telling me that I am lucky.

Unfortunately, it is I who cooks daily cuz he has such a long commute and doesnt get home until 7 PM and he works at the Deaf group home (the same one where Andrew worked at when he was here in MD) on the weekends.

It is not too often that he cooks so I try my best with cooking.

Yea, my hubby said that Andrew was the best roommate he ever had cuz he minded his own business and didnt take anything personally.
 
Kalista said:
You know love can be so selfish and bitter. Sometimes after making you feel so happy and wonderful inside. There is only one risk in life worth taking, it's the risk of getting hurt when you fall in-love because experiencing the joy of being in-love is worth all the pain anytime. It's better to meet the person who will love you later than meet someone now who promises to love you but sooner or later leave you forever. Friendship is just about the only way to keep the light in the hearts of two people glowing when they find out that love wasn't really meant to happen to them.

Friendship can be forever to prevent fell in love to cause hurtful their relationship. I assume that I am not ready to love again with someone else. :(
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DITTO... once a person did have real love.. then their love passes away... It is very hard to start dating anyone...I had been widowed since July 1, 1995....It was very hard for me to start dating some men..I did tried...I realize it was not fair to my date because I keep talking about my late beloved man....So I quit trying to date a man..
 
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