Frisky Feline
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you clearly have self-esteem issues if it's such a bother to be reminded of your hearing loss.
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you clearly have self-esteem issues if it's such a bother to be reminded of your hearing loss.
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Sounds like you're working things out regarding your own identity, HHissue. If you truly see yourself as a person with a hearing loss, without offering suggestions to help society as a whole rather than yourself, why are you rocking the boat unless you're unsure of yourself? May I suggest seeing a counseller?
Frankly, the general hearing loss population is in no danger of Deaf awareness. After all, only one million or so people knows ASL, oppose to 30 million with a hearing loss. Why do you view Deaf culture as a threat to your being? You are in the majority.
Wirelessly postedI do wish trains and busses are outfitted with LED lights or scrolling signs notifying passengers what street, station or district they are in.
A Deaf-friendly sign on shops and drive-throughs specifying that the staff in the shop have been educated to accomodate the Deaf.
Sometime some of the deaf people just like the feeling that they're "just one of the guys". And don't necessarily always want to be reminded of their deafness or have everything to do with just the deaf. And that they may just perceive themselves to be a "person first who just happens to have an hearing loss" rather than expanding or exaggerating their deaf identity and live in a "deaf this or deaf that..." sense like the way some of the deaf people do. Just my 2 cents.
One thing they could improve is the accessibility at train and bus stations. God knows how many times I've had to ask people if this was the right one to go on or not. They don't always tell you what platform it is on, and sometimes on the sign it is outdated information.
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Frankly, I wish most cities, outside of major metros, have the budget to maintain the transit schedule on Google Maps. But that's more of a blind thing than a deaf thing.
I do wish trains and busses are outfitted with LED lights or scrolling signs notifying passengers what street, station or district they are in.
Then that's their own issue to deal with. Means that have a personal problem with their deafness if they dont want anything reminding them of their deafness. I know because I used to be like that. Now, I want all the accodomations so I dont have to struggle pretending to be someone I am not.
One way I look at it is that I think it would be helpful if there'd be more support or momentum going towards the "hearing better route". And that more funds or donations be contributed towards the different science or technology research that has to do with helping those with an hearing loss to hear better. How's that for a solution?Wirelessly posted
Sounds like you're working things out regarding your own identity, HHissue. If you truly see yourself as a person with a hearing loss, without offering suggestions to help society as a whole rather than yourself, why are you rocking the boat unless you're unsure of yourself? May I suggest seeing a counseller?
Then isn't that kind of saying that all of the deaf or those with an hearing loss has to be the same and that if they're not, it's only those that does not fit what you think this "deaf identity" should be about are the ones you think has self-esteem issues?You clearly have self-esteem issues if it's such a bother to be reminded of your hearing loss.
A Deaf-friendly sign on shops and drive-throughs specifying that the staff in the shop have been educated to accomodate the Deaf.
A TV Channel designated to Deaf
One thing they could improve is the accessibility at train and bus stations. God knows how many times I've had to ask people if this was the right one to go on or not. They don't always tell you what platform it is on, and sometimes on the sign it is outdated information.
I agree! I almost miss the train recently. sheesh, It would be great if there does add the outdoor light signs by the train platforms.
I fly alone often and I really wish they would notify us what zone they are boarding. Originally, I would ask the flight people at the gate to tell me, but most of the time, they forget about me. Bastards. Now, I just sneak a peek at people's boarding tickets and find one that has my zone. Now I go when that person goes.
Delta (and perhaps other airlines?) do have TVs by each gate and most of the time, they tell us what zone is boarding. Thanks, Delta!!!
When I traveled alone and if I waited at the gate to board. I'd ask the staff to let me know when my number comes up and then sit right in front of them so they don't forget lil old me. Sometimes they'd let me get on first.
Then isn't that kind of saying that all of the deaf or those with an hearing loss has to be the same and that if they're not, it's only those that does not fit what you think this "deaf identity" should be about are the ones you think has self-esteem issues?
Would love to see that in practice. The only latest technology I have seen at McDonalds was thru the drive thru you speak into the speaker and then your order will show up on the screen along with cost of meal, but not useful for the deaf, tho.
We have that on channel 31 once a week, I think.
I agree. I had to ask sometimes whether if it's the right train etc. If a train staff happens to be in the vicinity then I'll ask them.
Great idea. I'd love it if they installed it at every single stations instead of the main stations.
When I traveled alone and if I waited at the gate to board. I'd ask the staff to let me know when my number comes up and then sit right in front of them so they don't forget lil old me. Sometimes they'd let me get on first.
HHIssues said:souggy said:Sounds like you're working things out regarding your own identity, HHissue. If you truly see yourself as a person with a hearing loss, without offering suggestions to help society as a whole rather than yourself, why are you rocking the boat unless you're unsure of yourself? May I suggest seeing a counseller?
One way I look at it is that I think it would be helpful if there'd be more support or momentum going towards the "hearing better route". And that more funds or donations be contributed towards the different science or technology research that has to do with helping those with an hearing loss to hear better. How's that for a solution?
One way I look at it is that I think it would be helpful if there'd be more support or momentum going towards the "hearing better route". And that more funds or donations be contributed towards the different science or technology research that has to do with helping those with an hearing loss to hear better. How's that for a solution?