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  1. Marie579

    Prefer deaf or HOH or hearing?

    Oh see, I really need to watch my words. No filter between brain and mouth!!! Last line wasn't meant to be rude :Oops:
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    Prefer deaf or HOH or hearing?

    I recently in the last couple of years started losing my hearing. But that's not what I'm going to talk about, my dad started working at the age of 18 for the Texas Education Agency. They worked with binding machines making teacher's workbooks. These machines were loud. His supervisor was deaf...
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    Between

    I wrote this awhile back, when I first learned what was happening to me. I'm an optimist and a strong person. I have my words as therapy, a gift from God. I am loosing my way, the ability to hear, The silence or the noise, which do I fear? Do I fear the sounds slowly fading away, Or the...
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    My trip to the store......

    :rofl::rofl::rofl:
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    Conflict in relationship over deafness.

    I know men like to ignore things so they'll go away, they hate conflict and they hate change. :run: They love being the hero, making the woman feel beautiful and taken care of, at the same time want a confident woman that is strong. :fly: They are insecure creatures that the more you build up...
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    Conflict in relationship over deafness.

    Okay then he feels like he owes you something maybe. Noooo you stupid guy way of thinking :roll: , just appreciate and reciprocate when you can. Since I'm still making sense I can still comment. I just worry I could be going off in left field and everyone else is heading to the dugout...
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    Conflict in relationship over deafness.

    Mmmmh then the cooling off is good, to repeat what others have said, but he's just not getting the fact that if he's gonna do something for you then at least do it nicely. Don't do it where its a chore. Cause I'm sure you do things for him in which you could behave the same way. Since I don't...
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    Conflict in relationship over deafness.

    This is funny, when I text my friends we do this, send several texts about different subjects and keep up with them, cause I don't like talking on the phone with my hoh...
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    Conflict in relationship over deafness.

    Now freedom in relationships when you're dating is another story, is he okay with you going out on your own without him being invited?
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    Conflict in relationship over deafness.

    Uh, it his fault kinda, he should not let that happen. I don't want to harp on him hear me out ok cause I had this issue with my husband years ago. Where anywhere I went he was welcome, but I wasn't always welcome where he went. When he got a taste of that he didn't like it. Not anything I did...
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    Conflict in relationship over deafness.

    I could be all wrong about it but I always speak before thinking. You're doing the right things. And it sounds like the staff was told not to babysit drunks and wiped out people. People that need help seems like would be an exception, like if I was 80 and loved to rock out bet they wouldn't...
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    Conflict in relationship over deafness.

    No, I know exactly how you feel. No matter what you do or prepare for you feel isloated. Its like HELLO!!!! Is this the romantic deaf chick you wanted dude?????? Is this how you thought it'd be when you met me????? Well, welcome to real life, my life. Go play with your friends. Next time you...
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    Conflict in relationship over deafness.

    Oh and the points thing what I meant was if he was gonna do it, smile about it. I don't love doing some of the things he likes but I do them!!!! And I don't bitch through it all. Men are taught to save the woman then she pleases him forever. Huh???? Even the Bible says the husband shall love his...
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    Conflict in relationship over deafness.

    If I was really really blunt how mad would anyone get at me? Of course I don't have your entire background or relationship history but (big inhale and exhale) here goes: when he says things like it doesn't matter, then he's feeling trapped. Could be he'd be the bad guy for breaking up with a...
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    Is deafness a disability?

    My husband can't sew but he could learn to, that would be a challenge he could overcome. You can't learn to hear so it gets labled with a general term "disability". With so many people abusing the system with different claims of false disabilities, it becomes almost a shameful term. But it...
  16. Marie579

    What are you thinking about? Part V

    Thank you Rio!!!! It's just so great when I accomplish things that used to come so easy before I had all this pain, thanks!!! =)
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    Age Barometer

    So glad that I only remembered less than half :lol: of course I had to recount a couple of times
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    What are you thinking about? Part V

    Why do I want to cry??? I'm such a girl!!! :roll: And. I'm. talking. to. myself. which is essentially blogging.... :hmm: Okay okay I'm going... :D
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    What are you thinking about? Part V

    I did it!! I blogged!!! I'm not quite sure how, but i did it!!! :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
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    What are you thinking about? Part V

    Wish I could figure out the blog thing!!! Then I could just write in there or post what I've already written, and not drive everyone crazy on the threads :type: No one in the hearing world cares, well they do, but they're busy so I shouldn't say it like that. But who cares if I hear sound...
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