Sexless Marriage

PowerON said:
If you're my wife, I'll leave! *shake fist with tear* :sadwave:
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Don't give up hope! I'm sure you'll find your special someone to get :naughty: with any time you want :giggle:
 
JamieLynn said:
I wouldn't mind sexless marriage... I'm weird like that... ;) Obviously both would have to agree on that elseway it won't work!
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LOL...

My parents (stepdad and mom) are in a sexless marriage. They vowed on that since the day they wedded.

Frankly, I am inclined to agree with what they did. I like people, but I don't like the drama that come with throwing sex as a wrench into things.
 
rockdrummer said:
Yes you are correct. (unless you are looking for a late night booty call :naughty:)
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Nah, but thanks (since you seem to be offering :giggle: ) I'm just not that kind of woman ;)

souggy said:
LOL...

My parents (stepdad and mom) are in a sexless marriage. They vowed on that since the day they wedded.

Frankly, I am inclined to agree with what they did. I like people, but I don't like the drama that come with throwing sex as a wrench into things.
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I knew it that some happily married couple was were out there somewhere without focusing their entire attention onto sex... ;) How long have they been married? (just wondering)
 
I feel sex in marriage is an important way to establish a connection that cannot be obtained any other way.
 
cosmic sex

I like the sound of that. Sounds like a nice way to be together. I tried to get a
girlfriend interested in it. Total failure. Upset the familiar power strategies.
 
seems like its a big deal. ;)

I agree with the rest of the posters here, that sex is important in having a connection with a mate in marriage.
 
Why does it have to stop?

I always wondered why why does it have to be something that stops and starts. That whole scenario of sex being like an activity that has a beginning and an end and a time and a place. I wont ever accept that as a model for a marriage I might have. If it cannot be a flowing activity throughout my marriage that does not stop, it may slow to a trickle at times and have big boulders to seethe against and go around but it must be kept flowing, a look of love, a brush of the skin, a parking lot makeout, all just kind of a continuum, if it cannot be that than I don't want it at all.
Never again will I accept the I was a good boy now I get sex thing, or okay if it makes you happy, or she wants it now and I am like a starving pilgrim. For me sex and love for my woman are parts of the same thing not different things and when I find her I want it to start and to stop when I die and even then keep going somehow forever.
What ever I thought I had in this life it was not that- not that it could not have been- I just was not there yet. In my clumsy ways I would have accidentally crushed it if it was there. I read about tantra and there is a giant
click in my brain saying yes, this is what I want. Because it is not just about us it is us with God. Not just God out there that we meet up with now and then but one we embrace together. I love that idea and that is what I am going for.
 
tantric is basically long duration sex without orgasm but somehow just short of it, in such a way that is an act 'dwell' the sensation and thus consciousness within an extended climax, that being a 'spiritual part' am I wrong?
 
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