Your First Girl/Boyfriend Story

[ladysolitary85]

Anyone like to share their first love?

Mine was in 7th grade, her and I were really great friends then on my 13th birthday she confessed her love for me and kissed me. I knew I had no attractions to boys though I also knew it was more of the norm, but this girl made sense to me. Everything about her I felt attracted to. She was a religious school girl that had a bit of an edge to her which I adored. We splitted going into 9th grade because she wanted to explore boys and I wasn't willing to commit to beliefs I had no interest in exploring at the time.

I remember the only person in my family who knew about my sexuality and my first love was my grandmother, strange isn't it? You would think the elderly would be a bit more traditional than accepting on that subject. My mother wasn't ready to accept it at that time. So our relationship was secretive.

Would I go back to meet for a cup of joe with my first love again? Well, I already reunited with her a few years ago to catch up on her life, how she was married and a baby on the way. It was good seeing her again, but I'm glad things went the way they did. Still good friends and better off that way

So, what's your story?

 

[DeafBadger]

First girlfriend was a hearing girl from my junior high arts class who asked me out.

Second girlfriend was a hearing girl in my high school gym class who asked me out.

Third girlfriend was a hearing girl in my high school english class who asked me out.

Fourth girlfriend was a hearing girl who bumped into me at the high school library who asked me out.

Why so many in high school? Probably because I had a newspaper route that kept me slim and muscular. I don't know.

Ironically, I was walking the straight road in these relationships. I was religious, so no funny business (other than kissing, holding hands and petting).

My last high school girlfriend was going to make prom night "special," (she was slowly, but surely, eroding my religious-shield, lol) but her evil step-mom discovered her intent, forbade us from going to the prom, and sent my girlfriend out of state to her bio mom, before prom was held. Yeah, evil step-mom.

After high school, women don't ask me out. Something about social expectations and roles.

As for first loves, yes I still remember my first girlfriend. Was it earth-shatteringly awesome? It sure seemed that way at the time.

 

[ladysolitary85]

My second girlfriend was.... pretty interesting lol. We dated in high school but went to different schools (were friends from jr high). Well, her mom found out about us and was super religious (to be clear I'm not against any religions and not trying to bring up the topic lol) and banned us from visiting each other, but she used to sneak over to my house at night anyways lol. I had to move, I discovered she had a boyfriend and was prego. So it was a sour split but it is what it is.