why isn't he talking to me

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I don't understand he was talking to me last saturday and we were talking about going out the next night blah blah blah I told him i would call him the next day so i did and he didn't pick up i called him about two times and he didn't pick up so i left him a message wondering if we still were going to go out and do something. He didn't call back so gave it a day and called him again still no answer. I left him a couple emails throughout the week telling him im alittle confused why hes not talking to me no reply . so i waited till today to call him still no answer. I'm about to give up on trying to talk to him, he told me i could call whenever iwanted so he basically gave me permission to annoy him lol which i don't want to do. I'm one those people who need an answer if your not talking to me for no reason i want to know why. Its not like i did anything or said anything to offend him or for him to just not talk to me. if your a guy why do you do this ?? its not like i was thinking of it as date i don't know what was in his mind about it ... i haven't seen him since high school which was back in 2003.
 
Unfortunately Morrigan is right.

He is trying to give you a clue through his immature and indirect communication. He choose to avoid you rather than talking to you directly. :nono:

These kind of men drives me NUTS!!!!! :squint:

Simply dont play his game - you dont need to waste your time & energy playing this game.

But I do feel for ya :hug:
 
its not like i was thinking of going out with as a date more a friend....
 
ella said:
its not like i was thinking of going out with as a date more a friend....
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yes but either way as a date or friend, who needs these kind of people who dont even bother to communicate with you???
 
Why dont you just go over to his house and see whats up?
 
i don't know where he lives ..... i just recently started talking to him again.. actually he talked to me first.
 
Steel X said:
Why dont you just go over to his house and see whats up?
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That's a bad idea, because he would think she is stalking him.


ella, I hate to tell you, But, I agree with MorriganTait and Gemtun it's a cold hard dating truth about men like him. He's not worth a time of a day trying hard to get him to go out. He's just playing you. I do feel for you thou. :hug:
 
should of known guys like him will always stay jackass frat boys... i wasn't even sure why he was talking to me in the first place.
 
i don't even know why i thought of brian a potential boyfriend. I think God was telling me not to be with him in a way because i really love nick. brian is more of a party guy, and swears to much ( which one the things i didn't like about him) i think my mind was saying to go out to dinner with brian ,but my heart was saying nick whose my best friend and mentor he gives the best advice in the world. I think i've been trying to find someone like nick, but i don't know why im doing that when nicks right in front of me.
 
Hi Ella,

I think he likes to have comfortable communicate with you if you know ASL so well, If you don’t ASL so well that makes him lost interested in you. Or might be he is immatured.

In my experience I had date with lot of hearing ladies that makes me lost interested. But Jamielee is hearing, she was very interested in to learn ASL, deaf culture, ETC that makes me interested in her.

The first few months I have to earn my trust her that she would not use me, cheated on me, ETC but she made a mistake once, she was tell me her apology me, I accepted her apology I forgive her and build up our relationship grow and strong right now I am very comfortable trust her a lot. I love her because she is a great lady what she was so good to me so far. But sad thing is we just broke up. I want to know why she did to me.

HTH.
Duncan
 
I agreed with Cheri completely! It is DEFINETLY bad idea to try to go over and pry him. This would show him your lack of trust with him. If you can't trust him, he will know it and don't want deal with you.

Cheri said:
That's a bad idea, because he would think she is stalking him.


ella, I hate to tell you, But, I agree with MorriganTait and Gemtun it's a cold hard dating truth about men like him. He's not worth a time of a day trying hard to get him to go out. He's just playing you. I do feel for you thou. :hug:
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Cheri said its safer to be single. Which is true! I could suggest you to take few steps backward and focus on yourself what you wanted for your own life, then once you know who you are then you'd be able to see guys clearly.

ella said:
i don't even know why i thought of brian a potential boyfriend. I think God was telling me not to be with him in a way because i really love nick. brian is more of a party guy, and swears to much ( which one the things i didn't like about him) i think my mind was saying to go out to dinner with brian ,but my heart was saying nick whose my best friend and mentor he gives the best advice in the world. I think i've been trying to find someone like nick, but i don't know why im doing that when nicks right in front of me.
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Aww hon, let him go, hes not worth to keep, and beside there's many fishes in the seas and you don't need a guy like him who going to play some kind of games....

I agree what the others say on this thread here, I'm sorry hon, it may be the last thing you would want to hear, but trust me, men like him it's worth a penny!
 
2006 sure is starting off bad. Alot of couples are breaking up or getting a divorce or separated. What's going on? its gotta be the air that's twisted in our minds!

Anyway, I think you need to let him go and move on. If he wants you that badly, let him come to you but remember... It may repeat itself. So, I'd say move on and meet someone else that can treat you right.
 
Ella,
Forget about him. It's his loss, not yours. I know what you're feeling as it happened to me, too. I look back and thank god that I'm not with him because if one has not got the gut to admit why they're ignoring you etc then they're not worth your time.
 
Ella just let him go cuz he is a jerk. He will be lonely and knowing that he hurt women. I bet ya that he will hurt whole lotta women then you realized that. Same with my exh who hurt too many women. So let him go and he is sure one big time jerk.

Take your time and find out who you really are and what you want out of your life and then like other said there is whole lotta fishes of men out there that are good.

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thanks everyone.. if i see him at 5 year high school reunion ... which he probably will sitting at the same table if they do our last names in alpabetal (can't spell) order. I'll make sure i finish what i almost did in government class 3 years ago. I'll make sure i really elbow him the balls this time but not just for me for other girls he blew off or hurt. Oh i really wish i would elbowed him balls

duncun (can't spell ..again)- he doesn't have hearing loss ,and neither do i, but i did sign to this one 17 yr old black kid who was hard of hearing he was really nice. I accidently asked him if he was art teacher when i ment student lol he had drawings all over his pants it looked cool, but he said hes not and that his friend did all the drawings. i forgot his name ...it suprised me that he was 17 cause he looked more like he 19 or 20
 
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