Why is it easier to just be yourself when ya alone?

[Deafilmedia]

In the other FORUM.... while I was banned here... and
while I was harassing Atheists in the other FoRUM.

I have asked this question...
Why is it easier to just be yourself when ya alone?

People said go out & meet people & just be yourself.
Then you get rejected.
I kicked out my roommate out when I was living in dorm,
cause I get tired of being stiff & just can't be myself.
Cause I like to sing, I like to dance, I like to hop up & down, I like to laugh out loud, I like to talk to myself, I like to spend time alone so I can think, I snore in bed, I can watch tv all night, I can eat in my room.....
But roommates get pissed off....
I'm sick & tired of being so stiff around people.
& then when I go in AllDEAF forum to chat, people
think I'm trolling & they don't think I'm being myself.
I'm being myself but they said I'm trolling.
& if I'm in a marriage relationship...
& if I loosen myself, my husband might walk out on me.
why do wives want to change their husband? It's bad
enough that they can't be themselves around them.
I guess I have to be too stiff in Forum.
There are many things I can't do around people.
It's so easier to be JUST BE MYSELF when I am alone.

HERE ARE PEOPLE RESPONDING TO MY QUESTION....




if people can't except you for who u r then they are aren't anything themselves. hang out with people who wanna be with you and who will accept you as u r. don't ever go into pretending to be something or someone else/ if u are being urself already then thats good and its good that you have some confidence to do what u want. just continue doing what u do and if they don't like it then thats their fault. they will have to deal with it.

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it is easy because you'll not be distructed from anythinbg else but your existence, you can see yourself clearly as much as it could take.

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I like you! just be yourself no matter what!

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If being yourself annoys 95% of the people you know, there are 2 possibilities (and both might be true)

a) you ARE annoying, and will have to change your personality if you want to avoid annoying people.
b) you need new friends, who will accept you for who you are.

When it comes to getting married, the second one is certainly important.

You've got to get to know the real person, not the mask they wear, if a marriage is going to work.

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the simple answer is when u r alone , no 1 will bother and care abt u ,u are free to do anything,that's why u able to be yourself .however, when u r not alone, people will dislike some of our behavior and may be boycott us.in order to consider others thought and feeling ,sometime , we need to control ourselves.
about ur future husband, u still can be yourself by choosing the person who will accept ur real self including ur weakness.
Don't marry to the one who cant accept ur real self.
most importantly ,be urself when u r going out with ur boyfriend so that he will more understand on ur real self.


ANYBODY WANT TO ADD TO HERE!!!

 

[Cheri]

Yea, It's true about being yourself, Your true self. but forgive me for asking, how you feel about your own personality? Have you ever justifying your own actions? Ever looked at what you've done again and again and try to change for the better because honestly your self-esteem isn't positive, I've heard so much negatives coming from you, but where's the positives?

That's something you need to re-considered.

 

[Deafilmedia]

Yea, It's true about being yourself, Your true self. but forgive me for asking, how you feel about your own personality? Have you ever justifying your own actions? Ever looked at what you've done again and again and try to change for the better because honestly your self-esteem isn't positive, I've heard so much negatives coming from you, but where's the positives?

That's something you need to re-considered.

I feel so and so about my own personality. Sometimes I justified my own actions. I tried to change for the better. I know that if I have positive
outlook and positive attitude, things will get better.

 

[JClarke]

For my suggestion, while you are here.. just try and be yourself, particpiate with other people's thread by discussing within their topics, don't troll.. be positive, think positive, that is what we need to see you around, in a better personaility. Just move on and we can not waste our time watching you troll around again. You might risk getting yourself banned once again...

Good luck, Deafilmedia.

 

[Levonian]

For my suggestion, while you are here.. just try and be yourself, particpiate with other people's thread by discussing within their topics, don't troll.. be positive, think positive, that is what we need to see you around, in a better personaility.

Telling Miss P not to troll is like telling me not to drink.

 

[guido]

In the other FORUM.... while I was banned here... and
while I was harassing Atheists in the other FoRUM.

I have asked this question...
Why is it easier to just be yourself when ya alone?

People said go out & meet people & just be yourself.
Then you get rejected.
I kicked out my roommate out when I was living in dorm,
cause I get tired of being stiff & just can't be myself.
Cause I like to sing, I like to dance, I like to hop up & down, I like to laugh out loud, I like to talk to myself, I like to spend time alone so I can think, I snore in bed, I can watch tv all night, I can eat in my room.....
But roommates get pissed off....
I'm sick & tired of being so stiff around people.
& then when I go in AllDEAF forum to chat, people
think I'm trolling & they don't think I'm being myself.
I'm being myself but they said I'm trolling.
& if I'm in a marriage relationship...
& if I loosen myself, my husband might walk out on me.
why do wives want to change their husband? It's bad
enough that they can't be themselves around them.
I guess I have to be too stiff in Forum.
There are many things I can't do around people.
It's so easier to be JUST BE MYSELF when I am alone.

HERE ARE PEOPLE RESPONDING TO MY QUESTION....




if people can't except you for who u r then they are aren't anything themselves. hang out with people who wanna be with you and who will accept you as u r. don't ever go into pretending to be something or someone else/ if u are being urself already then thats good and its good that you have some confidence to do what u want. just continue doing what u do and if they don't like it then thats their fault. they will have to deal with it.

***************************************************

it is easy because you'll not be distructed from anythinbg else but your existence, you can see yourself clearly as much as it could take.

***************************************************

I like you! just be yourself no matter what!

***************************************************


If being yourself annoys 95% of the people you know, there are 2 possibilities (and both might be true)

a) you ARE annoying, and will have to change your personality if you want to avoid annoying people.
b) you need new friends, who will accept you for who you are.

When it comes to getting married, the second one is certainly important.

You've got to get to know the real person, not the mask they wear, if a marriage is going to work.

****************************************************

the simple answer is when u r alone , no 1 will bother and care abt u ,u are free to do anything,that's why u able to be yourself .however, when u r not alone, people will dislike some of our behavior and may be boycott us.in order to consider others thought and feeling ,sometime , we need to control ourselves.
about ur future husband, u still can be yourself by choosing the person who will accept ur real self including ur weakness.
Don't marry to the one who cant accept ur real self.
most importantly ,be urself when u r going out with ur boyfriend so that he will more understand on ur real self.


ANYBODY WANT TO ADD TO HERE!!!

TL;DR

 

[Dixie]

OH god she's back? I thought she was banned.

Miss P - if you've had trouble making and keeping friends- the trouble may not necessarily be the other people - the trouble may be yourself.

What do you think of when you look at yourself in the mirror?

You need to grow up, get over yourself, and get a good grip on reality.

 

[JClarke]

Telling Miss P not to troll is like telling me not to drink.

My apologie, Lev.

 

[Deafilmedia]

OH god she's back? I thought she was banned.

Miss P - if you've had trouble making and keeping friends- the trouble may not necessarily be the other people - the trouble may be yourself.

What do you think of when you look at yourself in the mirror?

You need to grow up, get over yourself, and get a good grip on reality.

I have no trouble making and keeping friends. I just don't want friends.
I think I'm okay.

 

[JClarke]

I have no trouble making and keeping friends. I just don't want friends.I think I'm okay.

You joking? if you could try your best to be treatful and kind to us, you would have made friends - watch out of your attitude, lady.

 

[Deafilmedia]

You joking? if you could try your best to be treatful and kind to us, you would have made friends - watch out of your attitude, lady.

No I am not joking.

 

[LakeTahoe]

OPPS! Wrong room! I am outta of here, Miss P!

 

[JClarke]

OPPS! Wrong room! I am outta of here, Miss P!

Same here!