Again for the lurkers, out there deafbajagirl was primarily ORAL. (with good oral skills) She was ALSO high acheiving oral.........and yet her coworkers STILL have trouble understanding her. Maybe just having oral skills might not help your kid as much as those experts and oral teachers think!
Back on topic..............Deafbajagirl, I'd contact your state's senator...Also NAD, and Disabilty advocacy organizations.