why did guy leaves his girlfriend since he finds out about her?

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I like to know why did many guys leave their girlfriends when they find out about her?

Some friends told me what I am concerned of guys broke up with their girlfriends. They had an experience to hard time with girls who is very stubborn.

Few reasons:

- When a guy ask his girlfriend to shall go to church or study bible with her, a girl say she can't, she is busy around. But not true, he believes girl likes to play around.

- When a guy likes to talk to her about interesting things, such as sports game, funny thing, others, a girl did not talk about so much or lazy to go with him all the time.

- A guy encourage her to understand his feeling and hertiage background, a girl did not say anything, not pay attention at him so much.

- A guy want to make sure if she tell the truth like she did not cheat or take of advantage, girl always tell denial all the time.

- A guy tired of girl who did not communicate with him enough, such as talking unnecessary or make bored person.

-A guy realize girl like to talking back negative to other people about him as a race or disability.

And more, etc.

I know what guy did not like about girl if they caught them so much.

I believe guy like about girl who is honestly, appericate, caring, supportive, intellctual and others.
 
Also, why did gal leaves her boyfriend since gal finds out about him?. Same reason as that guy's reasons. :ugh3:

Keep seaching until find better one. :|
 
I believe it is important the couple tells each other everything, good or bad, rather than find out about their past from SOMEONE else!!!
 
MaxUFC said:
Also, why did gal leaves her boyfriend since gal finds out about him?. Same reason as that guy's reasons. :ugh3:

Keep seaching until find better one. :|
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you got point here max!! guys and gals are equal treating each other the same

don't think that just guy leave his girlfriend gal DO leave her boyfriend same kind thing

but for me for some opnion as a gal i have no idea why guy have to leave his girl if he not ready for relationship if this girl not wanna to leave him but have no choice to move on without him sighs
 
Ah, many reasons you said are correct. I have been through and had so many reasons why I left my ex girlfriends. One of all reasons I listed below are for each ex girlfriend. Some of them two same reasons, some of them same reasons.

Distance (TOO many of them!)
No communication (one of them).
They are too quiet (one of them).
Controlling (see users).
Temper (two of them).
Lazy by going to sleep at 6pm when I come over!
Swearing, vuglar language (few of them).
White trash, users, and immatures (many of them were).
Two faces (many of them were).
insecure or changing minds often (one of them).
Does not want to come to my church (too many refused!)
Tried to force me to move to their hometown (practically all LD ex gfs).

Now, I married a nice MATURE, Christian, secured, really communicative, hard working, local country widow. Quite the opposite of all those excuses, I married the one I seek for!
 
many people dump boyfriends or girlfriends for a multitude of reasons...

personally, most of my past relationships just didn't work out.. either we drifted apart or one of us wasn't focused on the relationship as the other was..

And why does religion have to play a part in a relationship... some couples i know have vastly different religions and have made compromises... and they're happy in their relationship.
 
nat84 said:
I like to know why did many guys leave their girlfriends when they find out about her?

Some friends told me what I am concerned of guys broke up with their girlfriends. They had an experience to hard time with girls who is very stubborn.
Why are u concerned about the guys breaking up with their girlfriends? Has nothing to do with u unless u are concerned as a friend?
Few reasons:

- When a guy ask his girlfriend to shall go to church or study bible with her, a girl say she can't, she is busy around. But not true, he believes girl likes to play around. Then that is the guy's problem for not having trust in his girlfriend.

- When a guy likes to talk to her about interesting things, such as sports game, funny thing, others, a girl did not talk about so much or lazy to go with him all the time. Some girls are not interested in sports just as some guys arent interested in romantic movies or fashion or cosmetics.

- A guy encourage her to understand his feeling and hertiage background, a girl did not say anything, not pay attention at him so much. That is something both parties need to work on themselves. If it is a serious problem, then maybe they arent compatible.

- A guy want to make sure if she tell the truth like she did not cheat or take of advantage, girl always tell denial all the time. Again, it is the couple's responsibility with trust issues. If there is no trust in the relationship, why bother having it?

- A guy tired of girl who did not communicate with him enough, such as talking unnecessary or make bored person. Then the girl is not right for the guy if she bores him so much.

-A guy realize girl like to talking back negative to other people about him as a race or disability. Then he needs to address it with her and tell her she is a bitch.

And more, etc.

I know what guy did not like about girl if they caught them so much.

I believe guy like about girl who is honestly, appericate, caring, supportive, intellctual and others.
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Same for many women...we want our significant other whether it is a woman or a man to be honest, appreciative, supportive, intelligence (that depends on each individual) and other good characteristics. That is normal!
 
shel90 said:
Same for many women...we want our significant other whether it is a woman or a man to be honest, appreciative, supportive, intelligence (that depends on each individual) and other good characteristics. That is normal!
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Yeah, I agree with shel90
 
I am agreeing with all those reply posts! Not point to " girl" but boy too

:):):) :dunno:
 
Some Guys or Gals leave thier Gf or bFs bec of kids- dont wanna have kids around 24/7 and used to have no kids around and being free.. or can spend more quailty time with thier sweethearts without kids SORRY it wont work that way...
 
Casperman said:
Some Guys or Gals leave thier Gf or bFs bec of kids- dont wanna have kids around 24/7 and used to have no kids around and being free.. or can spend more quailty time with thier sweethearts without kids SORRY it wont work that way...
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Gosh, I remember this guy who really liked me and I really liked him. We were almost perfectly compatible so I thought things were going well until he found out I had a kid. He went :bye: to me just like that. LOL!
 
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