I guess I don't understand when someone ends the relationship and wanting him or her back. I don't understand when someone wants to hurt him/herself for losing their relationship.
I know a girl who was in 2 or 3 yrs relationship and her ex bf ended the relationship. And this girl was wearing summer pj short and a tank top and went out cold and lying on the snow......and she had a hypothermia. We asked her why she would do that and she told us that she couldn't live without her boyfriend. I thought it was too much. Then again he wanted her back. A few months later, he had to end it for good. This girl popped all the pills and nearly killed herself. But she lived.
I talked to her about it and killing ourselves won't solve anything. Yes, it doesnt hurt to ask her boyfriend why he had to ended it and to have a final closure if she is willing to move on. I told her that it wouldn't be fair if she loved him so much when he doesn't love her. That's not relationship. Finally she moved on and is now dating a lot of different guys. She's having a time of her life.
