Lol, I know people like that. Last weekend I had a small gathering of deaf folk at my house, and they were ASL users. When a couple of married CI users pulled into the driveway, they all got up and left. It turned out that of the couple, the husband no longer uses his CI, but had a holier-than-thou attitude previously, and the others hadn't forgotten nor forgiven. The wife was in tears over the abandonment but I could only shrug.