What do hearing people have to offer? Are they generally willing to learn ASL? I don't think so, and what do I think they have to offer for Deaf people? "FIX THEM or else" Like trying to invent CI, trying to set up oral only Deaf school, and so on? Is that what they offer?
We the Deaf people wanted is some damn respect and not treating Deaf as dumb. What I mean is, I rather hearing Hearing people discover Deaf person and said, oh cool! never heard of that, and become curious and open mind than running amok and screaming "Im so sorry your Deaf"
Hearing people often offers sympathy for Deaf, do you expect us to accept and needed these kind of pity? Hell F... NO! These hearing people are sick, period!