I used to be overweight...Mens look at me, nice people.. and now since I've lost a tons of weight, mens still look at me.. It doesn't matter because it all matters whats inside of your heart. For those (mens) who only want tiny people, then they don't deserve a woman.. They don't have a heart for the person to begain with. I am a woman myself who has a heart of gold, Says all of my friends and family. Im friendly with everybody.. Mens are good to me, we may or may not date BUT we still contuine to be good friends. I got a friend I've known for 3 years, I love him to death.... Even though I would date him but time comes. One day at a time. But you know whats funny? I invited him over for dinner tonight, he didn't show up at all, But Im not going to punish him for it.. Know why? I've known him for years and there is a reason, he told me he was sorry.. and it was good enough and we still contuine to talk. Mens can think the same to womens. Both Mens and womens can be bitches. Nobody isn't perfect at all. So mens isn't perfect! I still love my friend and always will till the end no matter what. Nothing gets between me and my friends and family also!
Everybody Gains weight. Somtimes the older you get does it. But it depends.......
Mens can look at womens and "say" omg your fat and you gained weight
Mens can say you need to put make up on.....
Mens can say Blah blah blah!!!!!
BUT ALSO!!!! WOMENS can do the same. COMPLAIN!
Womens can say you dress horriable
Womens can say your fat
Womans can say don't fart in here...
Womens are just as bad as mens are.... But only if you find the true one You want to spend your life with.... These things won't happen... There is trust in the reationship....
Another thing..... Its a bit off topic
A friend of mine, there friend doesn't like me and doesn't want the person to talk to me... etc.. What does that tell you? No trust in the reationship... ALWAYS HAVE trust!
For example: If I dated my friend after I known him for 3 years, YES YES I would trust him... I know everything about him, the same he would trust me. He knows Im not a hoe and that I don't go running around with a bunch of people that we both don't know. He knows how I look and thinks Im beauitful. He knows Im deaf... Still talks to me after 3 years.... He knows.... it all matters whats inside of the persons heart... I I would still trust him becasue hes the kind of person that will admit if he is wrong. Same towards me. I know for those don't believe it, don't waste your time telling me any different becasue its what I believe! PERIOD
