If that's why there is a high percentage of divorce and cheating then that shows how shallow men are.
If your future wife or girlfriend gains weight from carrying your child and u pressure her to lose weight instead of being proud and understanding that is sad cuz pregnancy can be hard on a woman's body and to go back to the pre-pregnancy body takes a lot of hard work. I did it after my first daughter and it took me 2 years of spending 20 hours a week at the gym. Now, I have to do it again cuz I gained a lot of weight after my 2nd baby but I aint spending 20 hours a week at the gym. Only about 6 hours and if my body doesnt go back to the size 9, as long as I am healthy, that is important. If image is that important to u then u probably should remain single. Just a word of advice. There is no room for self-centered personalities in a marriage or a relationship. 
