I had my share of experiences with men on this issue. I have always been chubby, some guys would tell me "you would be hot, if you lost some weight." That just tells me that they just want my body and not my heart.
I was taught in the church from a christian point of view, love the person for the heart ,inner beauty not the outter. Another thing the pastor said, take a good look at the person your going to marry bec you are with them for life. I like that advice, so true you marry someone for the inner beauty and more they can offer. Why settle for some creepy arrogant guy or gal. I am not bashing anyone whose beautiful on the outside. Everyone has beauty to offer just have to take the time to get to know that person, there's alot to offer in a person if you only give them the time of day.
