You described arthritis in your post is similar problem as my friend had few years ago. May I share something with you about her.
She said arthritis is very pain. She keep on going to doctor for injection to prevent pains until she was recommend to go Specialist for Osteoporosis. Specialist advised her to keep her weight down because of too much weight can make knee hurt. She took his advise and lost 20 pounds and notice that no arthritis pain more. She feel good after suffer pains... she described me how terrible it is.
Interesting to know that arthritis could be very pain... How do you feel like this?
As what anyone make the fun of your weight then is their immature loser... It´s them, I feel sorry because they didn´t know what really you are...
If you are happy that way you are, then stay what you are... You don´t have to change because of them... but if you are not happy with your weight then have your partner to loving support. It´s wonderful.
