please dont dog all hearing men 
there are as many bad hearing men as there are deaf, black, white, etc.
there are also good ones, too many people are quick to judge. i have seen alot on this thread about weight, stereotypes are all bad. weight is not my demon, i struggle with height, i am a man and only 5'4" tall. i was once told id be gorgeous if i was only taller! thanks, cant really do much about that.
in the end, i think humor and kindness can be some of the "sexiest" traits of all.
