wow!
This must truly be a HOT topic between you guys!
Being overweight and being healthy are two different things as some of you have pointed out. There are many THIN women who are NOT healthy! These women may be extremely underweight and malnourished and there are those who are extremely overweight with the same issues.
I am a curvacious woman and by soceity's standards I would be considered overweight... HOWEVER I am perfectly HEALTHY in all aspects! Walking down the street, many would not consider me overweight but once I step on that doctor's scale and he compares me to what the average weight in America "SHOULD" be, I would then be classified as overweight.
I am PROUD of the way I look and I take time to groom myself so that way I feel GOOD about me!
Weight and men do not have anything to do with the other... it is a matter of PREFERENCE! Some men prefer thin petite women while others like big women and then there are those who like women like myself, CURVY! 
Women let us be truthful as well, not all of us like BIG men! I will be the first to admit that my preference is TALL, lean MUSCULAR MEN..... Does that make me a bad person with an issue? No it just merely states that I have a preference that I like..... and that is ok!
I think we just need to seperate that and not let others personal desires get in the way with our appearances.... we just have to be realistic with ourselves in terms of our likes and dislikes and weight should not be the main issue.....
FYI not trying to argue with anyone or insult anyone, just merely stating my opinion! Toodles!
