Do you expecting them "encourge them lose weight" everyday?? I suggest that you need open heart and understanding who have runs their genes heavy bones.. I don't complain anyone who have heavy bones or their health some of kinds diease...
Of course I know you're not trying to brings hot debate. Willing open and understanding their own pov and between yours.. That's fine w/me.. If suppose your future wife become overweight, how can you deal w/your future wife... ? Just happends their health came bad diease.. do you expect your wife GO WORK and lose weight will better health back normal.. I don't think so..
I have thyroid and long haul battle my weight.. somatch and hips.. still ongoing roller coaster lose weight then up back same weight number again..
Pretty hard for me to have patience..
Can you fix my health? I know you can't being magic wand for me become looking sexier.. no..
Accept who am I.. My personalities is great inside and outside...