I would love to have a kid, I just want to know if she's going to be a great mother and if she'll communicate nicely with me...It's that in my experience, it's sort of brought up "unexpectedly" and knowing what to say is pretty difficult. At the time with that one particular ex, it was well "ok, right now, lets finish our degrees", or "shit, I hope that condom didn't break but I'll bust my ass to make it all work".
