Nope nope nope.... I found the culpit.... MSN !!!!
It has secretly been changing all my settings, I shut down and when I fired back up a while ago everything went to shit. My homepage was changed, all my links to my sites were gone... everything was gone or changed. I had to restore twice since the first time was blocked by my anti bacterial device, then i had to change my prescription plan to allow the doctor to do surgery to my hard drive....lol Ah hell, im just being silly because Im so pissed, I got my settings set so they can not be changed unless I allow them and still the POS allows it? WTF? I need to find my book and notes on how to stop these auto updater BS !!!!