What would you do if your other half wanted to bring in a 3rd person?

What would you do if your parner asked to introduce a 3rd person in the relationship?

  • I would end the relationship.

    Votes: 1 4.3%

  • I wouldn't allow it. I'd make it known that it was either her or me.

    Votes: 10 43.5%

  • It depends on how attractive the 3rd person was.

    Votes: 4 17.4%

  • I'd give it a try. To please him.

    Votes: 1 4.3%

  • I'd give it a try. For other reasons.

    Votes: 3 13.0%

  • I'd be all for it.

    Votes: 2 8.7%

  • Other.

    Votes: 2 8.7%
  • Total voters
    23
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What would you do if your other half wanted to bring in a 3rd person?
What would you do if someone asked you to join in as a 3rd person in their relationship?
Would your reaction be differant if they were totally open about it as aposed to your other half trying to sneak about with someone else behind your back?

Moderator. Is this thread Ok here or should it be moved?
 
what do you mean dreama ? a threesome ? one time thing? permanent relationship ? polygamy ? you not enough to have sex and love relationship ? are you insincere ? can you handle 2 lovers ? I dont know dreama - you havent presented any facts or scenerios on what do you know so far or want to know.
 
well i wouldnt explode and be disgusted yada yada yada all that crap but i would ask why want to do it and i wouldn allow taht to happen call me old fashioned i m the loyal and true type that doesnt like to share my woman to other men besides i d like to think i more than satisfy her
 
A 3rd person to be a part of the relationhip? I would say no cuz it would cause too much drama.

3rd person as a threesome for fun..my hubby always jokes about it but I think he half hopes that I would say yes one day. I keep telling him "maybe" make him suffer. LOL!
 
Byrdie714 said:
3rd person for a relationship or for a one night stand?
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A 3rd person for a relationship as in Polyamory. Polyamory - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

It once happed to me. This guy I knew asked about doing a 3some with his ex girlfriend. I was ok about it but it turned out it was his indirect way of trying to put me off. I think his ex and him were not quite finished. If she ever had been his ex. She may have been his girlfriend. Who knows?

Now that is an example of a player.

I had another boyfriend who made it clear sex was just for fun as far as he was concerned. I was ok about that as he made it very clear where I stood. And I found him attractive naturally. Unfortunately he moved on to harder drugs and his behavior and our relationship kind of deteriated.
 
radioman said:
what do you mean dreama ? a threesome ? one time thing? permanent relationship ? polygamy ? you not enough to have sex and love relationship ? are you insincere ? can you handle 2 lovers ? I dont know dreama - you havent presented any facts or scenerios on what do you know so far or want to know.
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Yes, I meant a threesome. I don't mean one night stand. Sort of a another partner. I read about Polyormy and it kind of describes how I am (or was since I've not slept with anyone for the last 8 years). I just wondered how other people react to that sort of thing.
 
whats the difference between polyamory and polgygamy?

my reaction well I dunno, my guess right now its a threesome freindship maybe, but sexually in a threessome? mostly likey not, since it would change the whole relationship and issues of trust becomes exponentially far more complicated. I'd avoid it. Inf act id probably avoid it altogether. Best to be in a duet.
Cheers
 
Grummer said:
whats the difference between polyamory and polgygamy?
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The differance between Polygamy and Polyamory is that Polygamy is where a man has more then one wife. In Polyamory it's just a group of people living together or sharing a relationship that doesn't lead to marriage.
 
dreama said:
The differance between Polygamy and Polyamory is that Polygamy is where a man has more then one wife. In Polyamory it's just a group of people living together or sharing a relationship that doesn't lead to marriage.
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Like having orgies or swapping partners?
 
my vote is
I wouldn't allow it. I'd make it known that it was either her or me.

because im dating James our boyfriend but i never break-up but im almost breakups so im kept him very much ever!
 
dreama said:
A 3rd person for a relationship as in Polyamory. Polyamory - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

It once happed to me. This guy I knew asked about doing a 3some with his ex girlfriend. I was ok about it but it turned out it was his indirect way of trying to put me off. I think his ex and him were not quite finished. If she ever had been his ex. She may have been his girlfriend. Who knows?

Now that is an example of a player.

I had another boyfriend who made it clear sex was just for fun as far as he was concerned. I was ok about that as he made it very clear where I stood. And I found him attractive naturally. Unfortunately he moved on to harder drugs and his behavior and our relationship kind of deteriated.
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:roll: Re-read the question.

Byrdie714 said:
3rd person for a relationship or for a one night stand?
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I haven't answered your poll because it's to vague. So to be clear--is it for a relationship or for a one night stand?
 
Byrdie714 said:
I haven't answered your poll because it's to vague. So to be clear--is it for a relationship or for a one night stand?
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Sigh -- brydie is right .. dreama - its time for you to fess up on what do you want , what are you trying to do .. for god sakes - change the poll or close it.
 
Lolz, have y'all watch the HBO series, "BIG LOVE", they are good show but My wife and i was interesting about their culture and religious. We are not believe in Polygamist like y'all talkin about Polygamy or Polyamory. I suggestion, y'all should to trying to watch Big Love on HBO Series because it's interesting show, you know?

Thanks
Cuebie
 
radioman said:
Sigh -- brydie is right .. dreama - its time for you to fess up on what do you want , what are you trying to do .. for god sakes - change the poll or close it.
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Ok. Sorry to be vague. It's for relationship. I just read about Polyamory and was curious how people react to it. I would be all for it myself but I'm differance. Will that do you as a confession?

I'm not sure if I can alter the poll myself.

Can moderator alter poll so it says 'for relationship'.
 
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