Someone out there will always get offended by any which way you try and label or call something.There's always going to be "that one" that gets their milk curdled by what you say. Don't go tip toeing around people or your life will be full of nothing but trying to please others... not fun. Not saying to go intentionally peeve people off... just don't worry so much about every little thing. If you want to get involved in the Deaf community, go for it! If not, well that's your option too. ( Though you're kind of getting involved being in this site :P )
P.S. The medical community will typically label you HoH until you are profound in both ears ... Just FYI. 
Of course, each medical professional is different and that's up to them. 
Also, there is no shame in asking a question you have.
